African and Black Queer Experience and Public Education
Content note: This article discusses social manipulation, sex, reputational harm, police involvement, intoxication, racism, sexual shame, and friendship betrayal. Names and identifying details have been changed or withheld. This is …
PART 3: When Access Becomes a Weapon — My UK Black Queer Social Cruelty Experience Read More
Editor’s Note: This article discusses gossip, relational aggression, social-control manipulation, exclusion, and reputational harm in Black queer communities, with particular attention to Black queer friendship networks. It focuses on observed …
Triangulation—A Black Queer Manipulator’s Ultimate Tool for Destroying Friendships Read More
Content note: This article discusses social exclusion, reputational harm, gossip, public shaming, minority stress[5], and some references to group sex and chemsex-adjacent social spaces. Introduction: When Harm Does Not Need …
The Role of ‘Runners’ in Distributing Harm in UK Black Queer Spaces Read More
Intro: When the Crowd Feels Safer Than One Person I used to wonder why so many UK Black queer people seemed to prefer group chills to visiting someone privately. Even …
Why Some Black Queer Men Prefer Group Chills & Orgies to One-to-One Meetings Read More
Reputational Damage as the Pro-Max of Social Freeze-Out Social freeze-out is not simply “being left out.” In close Black queer communities, it describes a deliberate pattern of exclusion, silence, gossip …
The ‘Triad’ of Reputational Destruction in UK Black Queer Spaces Read More