African and Black Queer Experience and Public Education
“And with social visibility, I don’t have that much need for sexual visibility anymore.”—A Black gay man living in Canada. Humans share a core emotional need to be seen as …
Social vs Sexual Visibility: Why Being Seen Changes Sex for Gay Men Read More
If you scroll through Instagram, TikTok, X, or open Grindr or Jack’d, you could be forgiven for thinking gay culture has become one endless loop of perfect bodies, thirst traps, …
Why It Looks Like Being Gay Is All About Sex Right Now Read More
Sex is supposed to be a moment of connection—where you are fully in your body, fully feeling rather than thinking. But sometimes, especially under pressure, your mind flips into “observer …
Why Many Black Gay Men Struggle With Spectatoring During Sex Read More