African and Black Queer Experience and Public Education
When a queer man seeks medical help for sudden erectile dysfunction, physicians almost universally approach it as a physiological issue or simple “performance anxiety.” Because providers rarely ask young men …
Sexual Performance Shaming and Control in Black Queer Encounters Read More
Something Has Changed About “Top” and “Bottom” Labels In 2026, the labels “top” and “bottom” have moved beyond simple descriptors for sexual roles or preferences to become social signals that …
Why Softening “I’m a Top” Matters for Black Gay Men in 2026 Read More
Sex is supposed to be a moment of connection—where you are fully in your body, fully feeling rather than thinking. But sometimes, especially under pressure, your mind flips into “observer …
Why Many Black Gay Men Struggle With Spectatoring During Sex Read More