African & Black Culture. Queer Experience. Public Education.
In close-knit Black queer communities, triangulation refers to a manipulative strategy where a person avoids resolving an issue directly with someone and instead pulls a third party—or several third parties—into …
The Macos Threesome or Staged-Affection Triangulation in Black Queer Spaces Read More
Editor’s Note: This article discusses gossip, relational aggression, social-control manipulation, exclusion, and reputational harm in Black queer communities, with particular attention to Black queer friendship networks. It focuses on observed …
Triangulation—A Black Queer Manipulator’s Ultimate Tool for Destroying Friendships Read More
Mandem simply means “my friends” or “the boys” and carries a positive communal meaning. This article talks about “Mandem Performance”: the strategic adoption or exaggeration of urban masculine aesthetics, mannerisms …
Mandem, DL and Power: Masculinity as Control in the UK Black Gay Scene Read More