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How Bottom‑Shaming Affects Us All: Real-Life Examples and Solutions

NOTE:📢This article discusses shame surrounding receptive anal sex and includes vivid examples that may be triggering for some readers. Please proceed with care. Bottom-shaming refers to the use of words, …

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Dear Gay Men in 2025: You are not a Top, or a Bottom, or a Label

One troubling pattern I’ve observed about modern gay culture is the gendering of sex roles—treating “top” and “bottom” as if they’re fixed gender identities rather than fluid sexual preferences. And …

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