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How bottom‑shaming affects us all: Real-life examples and ways to end it

by Gloria Ezeh Bottom-shaming is a set of words, jokes, profiles, and behaviours that demean receptive anal sex and the men who enjoy it. It shows up everywhere: in hookups …

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Dear Gay Men in 2025: You are not a Top, or a Bottom, or a Label

By Daniel Nkado. One troubling pattern I’ve observed about modern gay culture is the gendering of sex roles—treating “top” and “bottom” as if they’re fixed gender identities rather than fluid …

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