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Sexual Performance Shaming and Control in Black Queer Encounters

When a queer man seeks medical help for sudden erectile dysfunction, physicians almost universally approach it as a physiological issue or simple “performance anxiety.” Because providers rarely ask young men …

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Mandem, DL and Power: Masculinity as Control in the UK Black Gay Scene

1. What Masculinity Can’t Confront, It Tries to Control In parts of the UK Black gay scene—especially where “mandem” performance overlaps with down-low (DL) secrecy—conflict often shifts from open disagreement …

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Mandem Hypermasculinity & Manipulation: What Black Gay Men Need to Know

A Calculated Exploitation of Queer Vulnerability Manipulation can happen in any relationship. However, for many Black gay men in the UK or US—particularly in high-pressure environments like London, New York …

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