African and Black Queer Experience and Public Education
In close-knit Black queer communities, triangulation refers to a manipulative strategy where a person avoids resolving an issue directly with someone and instead pulls a third party—or several third parties—into …
The Macos Threesome or Staged-Affection Triangulation in Black Queer Spaces Read More
Content note: This article discusses social manipulation, sex, reputational harm, police involvement, intoxication, racism, sexual shame, and friendship betrayal. Names and identifying details have been changed or withheld. This is …
PART 3: When Access Becomes a Weapon — My UK Black Queer Social Cruelty Experience Read More
Intro: A Practical Doctrine for One-to-One Conflict Interpersonal conflict is inevitable, but responding under pressure often makes it worse. In environments shaped by status, hierarchy, restraint, and indirect dominance, generic …
Masculinity Conflict Framework (MCF): When to Repair or Lock Read More
Dear Brothers, As the year comes to an end and we look toward new beginnings, this message is for my fellow Black queer men—especially those of us navigating late-night party …
Brother to Brother: Chemsex, PnP & HnH Safety for Black Gay Men Read More