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Social vs Sexual Visibility: Why Being Seen Changes Sex for Gay Men

“And with social visibility, I don’t have that much need for sexual visibility anymore.”—A Black gay man living in Canada. Humans share a core emotional need to be seen as …

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Why Internal Hierarchies Are So Common Among Black Gay Men

It’s Not “Toxic”—It’s Survival. When people talk about internal hierarchies among Black gay and bisexual men, they are usually describing the informal ranking systems that dominate dating apps, friendship circles, …

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