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Home » Archives for December 2014 » Page 2

Month: December 2014

DNB Classics

Ola – The Tale of a Young Moon Maiden – 4 and 5

December 1, 2014March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

FOUR   “Jagara! Jagara! Jagara!” The bells on Efu’s ankles and the tiny gongs strung to the end of her long wood staff rattled as she swaggered to the palace. …

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The Other Side of Love by Daniel Nkado

December 1, 2014March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

ONE She thought it’d be nice if she made something ‘local’. Egwusi soup perhaps. But she hasn’t seen him eat that before. She hasn’t even seen him eat anything. Before …

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How To Drive Traffic To Your Blog : What Works In Nigeria

December 1, 2014March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Daniel Nkado and Victor Uma It is naturally harder in Nigeria for new blogs to get fast traffic rise. This may be because the Nigerian blogosphere is already dominated …

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