African and Black Queer Experience and Public Education
Content Note: This article discusses social manipulation, sexual objectification, police involvement, a sexual offence allegation, sex work, racism, and psychological distress. Names and identifying details have been changed or withheld. …
PART 2: UK Black Queer Social Cruelty: The Manipulation, Gaslighting & White Saviour Trap I Survived Read More
1. What Masculinity Can’t Confront, It Tries to Control In parts of the UK Black gay scene—especially where “mandem” performance overlaps with down-low (DL) secrecy—conflict often shifts from open disagreement …
Mandem, DL and Power: Masculinity as Control in the UK Black Gay Scene Read More
By Daniel Nkado. In my Nigerian voice: I knew we were finished the moment I saw the language of the therapist’s office enter gay dating culture. 🙆🏾♂️😊 Terms like gaslighting, …
Gaslighting or Boundaries: Is Therapy Speak Ruining Gay Dating Today? Read More