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Mandem, DL and Power: Masculinity as Control in the UK Black Gay Scene

What Masculinity Can’t Confront, It Tries to Control In parts of the UK Black gay scene—especially where “mandem” performance overlaps with down-low (DL) secrecy—conflict often shifts from open disagreement into …

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How bottom‑shaming affects us all: Real-life examples and ways to end it

by Gloria Ezeh Bottom-shaming is a set of words, jokes, profiles, and behaviours that demean receptive anal sex and the men who enjoy it. It shows up everywhere: in hookups …

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