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Sexual Performance Shaming and Control in Black Queer Encounters

When a queer man seeks medical help for sudden erectile dysfunction, physicians almost universally approach it as a physiological issue or simple “performance anxiety.” Because providers rarely ask young men …

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Trust Onion Model: A Guide to Building Black Queer Chosen Family

Part 1: What Is A Chosen Family? Chosen family—also called found family or family of choice—refers to non‑biological relationships that queer people intentionally build for love, support, safety, and belonging. …

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a group of Black gay men arguing following a disagreement over sex roles and toxic masculinity and gossiping

19 Unflattering Behaviours Seen in Black Queer Spaces—with Examples

Content warning: This article discusses interpersonal harm in Black queer spaces, including manipulation, femophobia, HIV stigma, and related dynamics. Some readers may find this emotionally activating—please proceed with care. Introduction …

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