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Nigeria vs UK Queer Life — How Safety Cancels Intimacy

A comparative analysis of LGBTQ+ life in Nigeria vs. the UK. A detailed exploration of how safety cancels intimacy and why dating apps replace community with consumption in low-risk contexts. …

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How ‘Hood’ and ‘DL’ Performance Harms Black Gay Men

‘Hood’ Stereotype in Black Gay Culture While other definitions exist, in queer discourse and LGBTQ+ digital spaces, the term “hood” takes on a specific, troubling meaning. “Hood” in gay culture …

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Want to Date Black Gay Men Without Fetishising Them? Here’s How

On dating apps, at parties, and inside queer community spaces, Black gay men frequently encounter racialised fetishisation—the experience of being approached through stereotypes rather than being met as a full …

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Two muscled Black gay men wearing rainbow-colored skirts to demonstrate the power of absurdity in breaking stigma and role associated pressures and anxiety.

The Power of Screaming ‘I’m a Power Bottom Lesbian’ as a Black Gay Man

In gay culture, “top,” “bottom,” and “vers” were never meant to be social identities or personality types. They were supposed to be simple communication tools — a quick way to …

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DL Posing: How some gay men monetise down‑low identity for gain

By Daniel Nkado. “DL” stands for “down-low,” a term describing men—often Black or Latino men—who publicly present as straight but privately engage in same-sex relationships. Originating as an African-American slang …

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