African and Black Queer Experience and Public Education
Dating as a Black gay man in London can feel like navigating a maze of contradictory expectations. From the apps that reduce men to bodies and labels, and conversations where …
Black Gay Men in London: Forget Sexiness & Top/Bottom — Seek This First Read More
Strong But Not Smart: The Creation of a Myth American slavery promoted a harmful narrative that defined Black men’s worth by physical strength rather than intellect. The “strong bodies, weak …
Impact of Slavery on Black Masculinity and Black Gay Desire Read More
By Daniel Nkado. In queer dating and relationships, labels like top and bottom help people communicate what they enjoy. But when these terms solidify into permanent identities—dictating what someone “should” …
Top vs. Bottom: 8 Ways Rigid Roles Hurt Gay & Bi Men—Why Fluidity Matters Read More
One troubling pattern I’ve observed about modern gay culture is the gendering of sex roles—treating “top” and “bottom” as if they’re fixed gender identities rather than fluid sexual preferences. And …
Dear Gay Men in 2025: You are not a Top, or a Bottom, or a Label Read More