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Mandem, DL and Power: Masculinity as Control in the UK Black Gay Scene

Mandem simply means “my friends” or “the boys” and carries a positive communal meaning. This article talks about “Mandem Performance”: the strategic adoption or exaggeration of urban masculine aesthetics, mannerisms …

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Why Some Black Gay Spaces Feel Unsafe —How to Rebuild Trust

Black gay spaces—on dating apps, in nightlife, in friendship circles, and across diaspora community networks—are often imagined as places of refuge. Yet the places we expect to be sanctuaries can …

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How ‘Hood’ and ‘DL’ Performance Harms Black Gay Men

‘Hood’ Stereotype in Black Gay Culture While other definitions exist, in queer discourse and LGBTQ+ digital spaces, the term “hood” takes on a specific, troubling meaning. “Hood” in gay culture …

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