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Nigeria vs. UK Queer Life — How Safety Cancels Intimacy

A comparative analysis of LGBTQ+ life in Nigeria and the UK—this piece explores how increased safety can quietly weaken intimacy, and how dating apps—Grindr, Jack’d, and others— in low‑risk environments …

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How Black Gay Men Promote Stigma That Comes Back To Hurt Us

As Black gay men, we navigate a world layered with intersecting oppressions—racism from broader society and homophobia within our own racial communities. Knowing this, one would think that any gathering …

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The Power of Screaming ‘I’m a Power Bottom Lesbian’ as a Black Gay Man

In gay culture, “top,” “bottom,” and “vers” were never meant to be social identities or personality types. They were supposed to be simple communication tools — a quick way to …

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a group of Black gay men arguing following a disagreement over sex roles and toxic masculinity and gossiping

19 Unflattering Behaviours Seen in Black Queer Spaces—with Examples

Content warning: This article discusses interpersonal harm in Black queer spaces, including manipulation, femophobia, HIV stigma, and related dynamics. Some readers may find this emotionally activating—please proceed with care. Introduction …

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