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Why Some Black Gay Spaces Feel Unsafe—How to Rebuild Trust

Black gay spaces—on dating apps, in nightlife, in friendship circles, and across diaspora community networks—are often imagined as places of refuge. Yet the places we expect to be sanctuaries can …

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Why Internal Hierarchies Are So Common Among Black Gay Men

It’s Not “Toxic”—It’s Survival. When people talk about internal hierarchies among Black gay and bisexual men, they are usually describing the informal ranking systems that dominate dating apps, friendship circles, …

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How Black Gay Men Promote Stigma That Comes Back To Hurt Us

As Black gay men, we navigate a world layered with intersecting oppressions—racism from broader society and homophobia within our own racial communities. Knowing this, one would think that any gathering …

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19 Unflattering Behaviours Seen in Black Queer Spaces—with Examples

By Victor Umeh & Daniel Nkado. Content warning: This article discusses interpersonal harm in Black queer spaces, including manipulation, femophobia, HIV stigma, and related dynamics. Some readers may find this …

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