For Shy Guys : How To Approach Her

by Victor Uma

Thinking you are the shyest guy in the planet? Wait till you see me. Fell into the gutter the first time I tried talking with a lady. She was one hell of a goddess, both in beauty and English, if you get what I mean.

But then I got better. You can too.

These 5 tips can help you.

1. Don’t Be Thinking About Other Things

You know what I’m talking about here. Just walk up to her with a blank mind. Better start off with a little discussion before telling her how much you like her and how so very desperately you would like to mean more in her life, and the things alike.
Please don’t copy my line—go find yours! They are already used anyway, so unless you pick a used recharge card in the streets and successfully load it, they are not going to work. #BigTongue

2. Utilize Your Shyness To Your Good

Maybe you haven’t noticed but some girls actually like shy guys. Guys with an aura of vulnerability appear harmless, innocent and lovable to ladies. So instead of getting mad at yourself for being so bashful, let your shyness work for you. Don’t be afraid if it showed.

3. Don’t Go Cramming What To Say Beforehand

Don’t do this. It will not only fail you, but land you in a serious stammering mess.

4. Don’t Forget The Main Thing

Don’t keep fighting the words. Say it and watch her react. She is never going to pull out a gun and shoot you for saying it. [Can’t categorically vouch this for all Naija ladies though]


If she says NO, respect her decision and walk away.

5. You Can Agree To Be Friends But Don’t Become Her Girlfriend 

Okay, this one pretty much explains itself.

Goodluck!

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If symptoms persist after one week, consult your nearest Babalowo.