Great sex can show itself in some surprising ways! It doesn’t like to be hidden. Based on known psychological and physiological studies on the effects of sexual satisfaction, adults often show these subtle behavioural cues when they start getting some good stuff.
1. They Become More Playful
Great sex often spills over into a lighthearted, mischievous demeanour, like cracking silly jokes or teasing others in a flirty, non-sexual way, reflecting a boosted mood and confidence.
2. They Are More Patient with Annoyances
Sexual satisfaction can increase emotional resilience, so they might shrug off minor irritations—like a slow barista or traffic—more easily than usual. Generally, a greater ability to tolerate delays or inconveniences without becoming visibly frustrated. Subtle cues like eye-rolling or tapping fingers might also be less frequent.
3. They Crave Random Physical Touch
Not just with their partner, but they might hug friends longer or pat a colleague’s shoulder, as great sex heightens their comfort with physicality in general. Pay attention when your best friend starts finishing every interaction with “Can I get a hug?”
Heightened physical pleasure can trigger a burst of emotional connection, making someone want to cuddle more, hold hands, or give random hugs.
4. They Are Obsessed with New Sensory Experiences
Great sex can awaken sensory awareness, so they might suddenly rave about a new coffee’s aroma, a song’s bassline, or the feel of a soft sweater. If they live in Nigeria, they can start smelling the rain.
5. They Post Less On Social Media
Fulfilling sex can reduce the need for dopamine hits from social media, so they might leave their phone in their pocket more often or ignore notifications.
6. They Start Making More Eye Contact
Great sex builds intimacy skills, making them more comfortable holding prolonged, confident eye contact in conversations, even with strangers. It is also possible they are thinking about something else when making these prolonged eye contacts.
7. They Are Eating More Adventurously
A satisfying sex life can increase openness to pleasure in other areas, so they might try bold new foods or cook with exotic spices out of the blue. Did you notice when your coworker Emily started ordering bowls of açaí for lunch or jollof rice?
8. They Laugh More at Dumb Things
The oxytocin and dopamine from great sex can lower people’s threshold for humour, so they’re giggling at cheesy sitcoms or memes that wouldn’t usually crack them up.
9. They Are Suddenly Into Spontaneous Plans
Great sex can boost confidence and openness, so they might say yes to last-minute outings or suggest impromptu adventures, reflecting a freer, more carefree mindset.
10. Their Wardrobe Gets Bolder
Sexual satisfaction can enhance body positivity, leading them to wear brighter colours, tighter fits, or experimental styles they’d usually shy away from.
11. They Suddenly Become More Organised
The stress relief from great sex can sharpen focus, so they might tackle cluttered desks, plan their week meticulously, or finally sort that junk drawer.
12. They Hum or Sing Randomly
Elevated mood from sexual fulfilment can manifest as absent-minded humming or singing while doing chores, even if they’re not musically inclined.
13. They Are Suddenly More Curious About Other People’s Lives
Great sex can increase empathy and social connection, so they might ask deeper questions or show genuine interest in friends’ or coworkers’ stories. They also might just be looking for tips on new styles or positions to try.
