Skip to content
April 2, 2026
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Instagram
  • YouTube

DNB Stories Africa

African and Black Queer Experience and Public Education

Join the discussion on Telegram.
  • Home
  • About DNB Stories Africa
  • LGBTQ+ Culture
  • Queer Mental Health
  • Queer Sexual Health
  • Queer Frameworks & Models
  • Opinion/Op-Eds
  • Trending Now 🔥
  • Privacy Policy
  • Write For DNB Stories
  • Advertise on DNB Stories
  • Buy DNB Books
  • Donate/Support DNB Stories
  • Art and Literature
  • Biographies
  • True Life
  • General Articles
  • DNB Classics
  • Media and Entertainment
  • Contact DNB Stories
  • Join the Community
  • About Daniel Nkado
Home » Archives for December 2017 » Page 2

Month: December 2017

DNB Classics

If there are no gays…

December 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Dr Ransome Despite two recent surveys concluding that society has become more accepting of gays, homophobia is still a big problem all over the world. All around the globe, …

Share this post with your friends:
If there are no gays… Read More
DNB Classics

8 of the world’s strangest discoveries

December 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer The world remains a mystery to many of us. From vampires to UFOs, ancient scripture and mass grave sites, these unexplained discoveries have stumped scientists and captured …

Share this post with your friends:
8 of the world’s strangest discoveries Read More
DNB Classics

‘Please don’t shave your pubic hair before going into the delivery room’ – Doctor

December 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 5 Comments.

by Staff writer During a question and answer session, a pregnant woman wanted to know if she really does need to shave her pubic hair before going into the delivery …

Share this post with your friends:
‘Please don’t shave your pubic hair before going into the delivery room’ – Doctor Read More
DNB Classics

Love and Other Things that Follow – 5 and 6

December 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

FIVE Read previous chapters HERE: *** At work that morning, Christian was not himself. He was restless and his fingers trembled when he wanted to write. When he typed, he …

Share this post with your friends:
Love and Other Things that Follow – 5 and 6 Read More
DNB Classics

Australia legalizes same-sex marriage amid joy and tears

December 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Australia’s Parliament has voted to legalize same-sex marriage on Thursday after many years of fierce public debate. Cheers and applause broke out as lawmakers voted in favor …

Share this post with your friends:
Australia legalizes same-sex marriage amid joy and tears Read More
DNB Classics

Anonymous Saudi man and his charity street refrigerator

December 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer A man living in the city of Hail, Saudi Arabia, came up with a brilliant idea to feed needy people in his neighborhood while sparing them the …

Share this post with your friends:
Anonymous Saudi man and his charity street refrigerator Read More
DNB Classics

When you fight with your makeup artist

December 6, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Miz Tee Between UNI-Ibadan slay queen and a makeup artist: Slay Queen: Madam, how much do you charge for makeup? Makeup Artist: Just 10K Slay Queen: 10 what? Is …

Share this post with your friends:
When you fight with your makeup artist Read More
DNB Classics

The Secret of Happiness

December 5, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Paulo Coelho A certain shopkeeper sent his son to learn about the secret of happiness from the wisest man in the world. The lad wandered through the desert for …

Share this post with your friends:
The Secret of Happiness Read More
DNB Classics

‘If you didn’t make it in your 20s, wait for 40s!’

December 5, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Dylin Redling If it happened that I didn’t make it in my 20s, is there still hope of ever becoming successful? Yes! I say this because that scenario definitely …

Share this post with your friends:
‘If you didn’t make it in your 20s, wait for 40s!’ Read More
DNB Classics

Meet the man that coined the word ‘Meme’

December 4, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer English biologist and author Richard Dawkins coined the word meme. Meme is a shortening modeled from the word gene to represent an “imitated thing” or “to imitate”. …

Share this post with your friends:
Meet the man that coined the word ‘Meme’ Read More
DNB Classics

Very SAD: Fast food CEO kills himself over tax fears

December 4, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Court records have shown the owner of Golden Krust restaurant chain who committed suicide in his Bronx factory was deep in tax debt and was being sued …

Share this post with your friends:
Very SAD: Fast food CEO kills himself over tax fears Read More
DNB Classics

End SARS: Nigerians recount harrowing ordeals

December 4, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer The Special Anti-Robbery Squad, SARS, a unit under the Nigerian police charged with the responsibility of battling crime has recently come under heavy criticism by Nigerians who …

Share this post with your friends:
End SARS: Nigerians recount harrowing ordeals Read More
DNB Classics

Who says man’s not hot?

December 4, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Miz Tee Man’s actually HOT! Very HOT! ??? ??? *** For more videos, SUBSCRIBE to DNB Stories Channel.

Share this post with your friends:
Who says man’s not hot? Read More
DNB Classics

Before you post another RIP on Facebook, READ this!

December 3, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Taya Dunn Johnson Grieving in the technology age is uncharted territory. I’ll take you back to Saturday, June 9, 2012. At 8:20 a.m., my 36-year-old husband was pronounced dead …

Share this post with your friends:
Before you post another RIP on Facebook, READ this! Read More
DNB Classics

Beware of Feminists: Where contemporary feminism lost it

December 3, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer We’re told that feminism is about equality, plain and simple. But Jessa Crispin, author of the new book Why I’m Not A Feminist, brings a few other …

Share this post with your friends:
Beware of Feminists: Where contemporary feminism lost it Read More
DNB Classics

“I paid N.5 million to become a slave” – Libya returnee

December 3, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Over 650 intending migrants have returned to Nigeria over the past three months with nothing short of heartbreaking tales. One of the returnees, 27-year-old Ewere Joseph, who …

Share this post with your friends:
“I paid N.5 million to become a slave” – Libya returnee Read More
DNB Classics

How I became an atheist

December 3, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Daniel Metivier Like every person ever, I was born an atheist. I was raised a Catholic and was attending Catholic School for a few years but I had issues …

Share this post with your friends:
How I became an atheist Read More
True Life

Why I don’t want kids

December 2, 2017May 6, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Ms Amira I know I’m probably not the only person who feels like kids are a prison sentence (YES, I said it), but I am in no way trying …

Share this post with your friends:
Why I don’t want kids Read More
DNB Classics

Why you should STOP paying tithe

December 2, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer It’s probably suicidal for a pastor to preach on why you should not tithe! Considering most of the so-called pastors we have today are just out for …

Share this post with your friends:
Why you should STOP paying tithe Read More
DNB Classics

Love and Other Things that Follow – 4

December 1, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

FOUR Read previous chapters HERE: *** Dikezue was short and round. He looked quite younger than one would have imagined he would be from the rumours. Or maybe that was …

Share this post with your friends:
Love and Other Things that Follow – 4 Read More
DNB Classics

5 reasons writers are weird people

December 1, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Sheily Gupta Writers! They come from the lands of broken hearts, rusting showers and stale coffee. They get lost in fiction and most times confuse stories with reality. Their …

Share this post with your friends:
5 reasons writers are weird people Read More
DNB Classics

Something Bigger Than Love – 2

December 1, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

Chapter Two Ahanna sold clothes at Oshodi market in Lagos. He told Obinna that all he needed was just N30, 000 to start. He’d be travelling to Cotonou with him …

Share this post with your friends:
Something Bigger Than Love – 2 Read More
DNB Classics

Teenager wanted to look like Angelina Jolie, but got this!

December 1, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer How far will you go to look like your favorite celebrity? 50 plastic surgeries perhaps… Iranian teenager Sahar Tabar has gotten famous recently for undergoing 50 plastic …

Share this post with your friends:
Teenager wanted to look like Angelina Jolie, but got this! Read More
DNB Classics

Teen maid gets pregnant and displaces barren Madam

December 1, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer A 14-year old housemaid has dislodged a barren woman from her home after she was impregnated by the woman’s husband simply known as Emmanuel in Lagos State, …

Share this post with your friends:
Teen maid gets pregnant and displaces barren Madam Read More

Posts pagination

Previous 1 2

Follow us on social media

Or click HERE to buy our books.

Trending Now

Masculinity Anchors Model (MAM): Redefining Black Queer Masculinity

April 1, 2026April 1, 2026

Protect Yourself from a Punisher – The Masculinity Conflict Framework

March 29, 2026March 29, 2026

Sexual Role Anxiety and Bottoming for Yourself as a Black Gay Man

March 24, 2026March 25, 2026

FOMO & RCT: Why Black Gay Men Date Better When Tired

March 20, 2026March 23, 2026

Masculinity Conflict Framework (MCF): When to Repair or Lock

March 18, 2026March 26, 2026

The Economics of Black Queer Desire: Surviving Modern Sex Scarcity

March 16, 2026March 16, 2026

Emerging Social Currencies for Black Gay Men in 2026

March 10, 2026March 13, 2026

Absurdity Reps Method: How Gay Men Break Shame in Real Time

March 9, 2026March 13, 2026

Why Softening “I’m a Top” Matters for Black Gay Men in 2026

March 3, 2026March 3, 2026

Social vs Sexual Visibility: Why Being Seen Changes Sex for Gay Men

March 1, 2026March 12, 2026

The Hope of It All—Why I Love Taylor Swift

February 19, 2026February 19, 2026

Mandem, DL and Power: Masculinity as Control in the UK Black Gay Scene

February 19, 2026March 31, 2026

Mandem Hypermasculinity & Manipulation: What Black Gay Men Need to Know

February 15, 2026February 21, 2026

The Shame ‘Void’: How Visibility Breaks Compulsive Sex for Black Gay Men

February 11, 2026March 2, 2026

Dynamic Disclosure: A New Framework for Black Queer Identity

February 10, 2026March 12, 2026

Masculinity Anchors Model: Why Black Gay Men Chase Straight Validation

February 7, 2026March 30, 2026

Muscularity vs Hypermasculinity in Black Gay Men—Key Differences & Signs

January 31, 2026February 1, 2026

Hypermasculinity in Black Gay Men—How Fear Drives the ‘Macho Act’

January 30, 2026January 31, 2026

The Bridge Model by Daniel Nkado: Rebuilding Trust & Love in Black Gay Spaces

January 28, 2026February 26, 2026

Nigeria vs. UK Queer Life — How Safety Cancels Intimacy

January 26, 2026February 1, 2026

Why Some Black Gay Spaces Feel Unsafe —How to Rebuild Trust

January 24, 2026February 20, 2026

Why Internal Hierarchies Are So Common Among Black Gay Men

January 23, 2026February 20, 2026

5 Core Dimensions of Intimacy for Black Gay Men

January 21, 2026March 29, 2026

LGBTQ+ Africa: Why Diaspora Visibility and Advocacy Must Put Safety First

January 20, 2026February 27, 2026

Beyond Looks & Roles: What London Black Gay Men Need Most in a Partner

January 14, 2026March 29, 2026

Ancestral Work: A Hoodoo and Ifá Guide for Black Gay Men

January 13, 2026January 15, 2026

Black Gay Couples and Adoption: Eligibility and Wait Times

January 12, 2026January 12, 2026

Why Black Gay Elders Are Re-Closeting: UK vs Nigeria Comparison

January 10, 2026January 11, 2026

Impact of Slavery on Black Gay Masculinity and Desire

January 9, 2026March 30, 2026

How ‘Hood’ and ‘DL’ Performance Harms Black Gay Men

January 7, 2026March 31, 2026

Mechanism + Tools on DNBStories.com

Masculinity Anchors Model (MAM): Redefining Black Queer Masculinity

April 1, 2026April 1, 2026

Protect Yourself from a Punisher – The Masculinity Conflict Framework

March 29, 2026March 29, 2026

Sexual Role Anxiety and Bottoming for Yourself as a Black Gay Man

March 24, 2026March 25, 2026

FOMO & RCT: Why Black Gay Men Date Better When Tired

March 20, 2026March 23, 2026

Masculinity Conflict Framework (MCF): When to Repair or Lock

March 18, 2026March 26, 2026

The Economics of Black Queer Desire: Surviving Modern Sex Scarcity

March 16, 2026March 16, 2026

Absurdity Reps Method: How Gay Men Break Shame in Real Time

March 9, 2026March 13, 2026

QDRF: A Practical Framework for Gay Men to Build Dating Resilience

March 1, 2026March 2, 2026

Trust Onion Model: A Guide to Building Black Queer Chosen Family

February 25, 2026March 14, 2026

Mandem, DL and Power: Masculinity as Control in the UK Black Gay Scene

February 19, 2026March 31, 2026

The Shame ‘Void’: How Visibility Breaks Compulsive Sex for Black Gay Men

February 11, 2026March 2, 2026

Dynamic Disclosure: A New Framework for Black Queer Identity

February 10, 2026March 12, 2026

Masculinity Anchors Model: Why Black Gay Men Chase Straight Validation

February 7, 2026March 30, 2026

The Bridge Model by Daniel Nkado: Rebuilding Trust & Love in Black Gay Spaces

January 28, 2026February 26, 2026

Why Black Gay Men Don’t Have to ‘Come Out’ Like Other Races

December 31, 2025March 12, 2026

The Power of Screaming ‘I’m a Power Bottom Lesbian’ as a Black Gay Man

December 14, 2025March 5, 2026

How to Handle Sexual Rejection as a Gay Man: A Practical Framework

December 3, 2025February 27, 2026

Lived Experience

Masculinity Anchors Model (MAM): Redefining Black Queer Masculinity

April 1, 2026April 1, 2026

Why Softening “I’m a Top” Matters for Black Gay Men in 2026

March 3, 2026March 3, 2026

Social vs Sexual Visibility: Why Being Seen Changes Sex for Gay Men

March 1, 2026March 12, 2026

Trust Onion Model: A Guide to Building Black Queer Chosen Family

February 25, 2026March 14, 2026

The Hope of It All—Why I Love Taylor Swift

February 19, 2026February 19, 2026

Mandem, DL and Power: Masculinity as Control in the UK Black Gay Scene

February 19, 2026March 31, 2026

Mandem Hypermasculinity & Manipulation: What Black Gay Men Need to Know

February 15, 2026February 21, 2026

The Shame ‘Void’: How Visibility Breaks Compulsive Sex for Black Gay Men

February 11, 2026March 2, 2026

Masculinity Anchors Model: Why Black Gay Men Chase Straight Validation

February 7, 2026March 30, 2026

Muscularity vs Hypermasculinity in Black Gay Men—Key Differences & Signs

January 31, 2026February 1, 2026

Hypermasculinity in Black Gay Men—How Fear Drives the ‘Macho Act’

January 30, 2026January 31, 2026

The Bridge Model by Daniel Nkado: Rebuilding Trust & Love in Black Gay Spaces

January 28, 2026February 26, 2026

Nigeria vs. UK Queer Life — How Safety Cancels Intimacy

January 26, 2026February 1, 2026

Why Some Black Gay Spaces Feel Unsafe —How to Rebuild Trust

January 24, 2026February 20, 2026

Why Internal Hierarchies Are So Common Among Black Gay Men

January 23, 2026February 20, 2026

5 Core Dimensions of Intimacy for Black Gay Men

January 21, 2026March 29, 2026

Beyond Looks & Roles: What London Black Gay Men Need Most in a Partner

January 14, 2026March 29, 2026

Black Gay Couples and Adoption: Eligibility and Wait Times

January 12, 2026January 12, 2026

Impact of Slavery on Black Gay Masculinity and Desire

January 9, 2026March 30, 2026

How ‘Hood’ and ‘DL’ Performance Harms Black Gay Men

January 7, 2026March 31, 2026

Gay Migration: How Diaspora Visibility Can Endanger Locals

January 5, 2026January 6, 2026

Gay Men Marrying Women: The Risks of Not Telling Her

January 1, 2026January 10, 2026

Why Black Gay Men Don’t Have to ‘Come Out’ Like Other Races

December 31, 2025March 12, 2026

How Black Gay Men Promote Stigma That Comes Back To Hurt Us

December 28, 2025December 28, 2025

Why It Looks Like Being Gay Is All About Sex Right Now

December 23, 2025January 3, 2026

Keeping One’s Hand Straight in Igbo Culture: Integrity, Ikenga & Trust

December 19, 2025December 19, 2025

Trade vs. Thinker: The Cost of Valuing Black Bodies Over Black Minds

December 16, 2025December 18, 2025

Brother to Brother: Chemsex, PnP & HnH Safety for Black Gay Men

December 12, 2025February 5, 2026

a group of Black gay men arguing following a disagreement over sex roles and toxic masculinity and gossiping

19 Unflattering Behaviours Seen in Black Queer Spaces—with Examples

December 9, 2025March 25, 2026

Control-Relax Method: A Guide For Reducing Bottoming Pain in Men

October 28, 2025March 23, 2026

Contact Us

DNB Stories Africa
Maryland, Lagos.
danielnkado@gmail.com
WhatsApp Only – +2347014043648

You can also contact us through the Contact Form on our website.

 

Categories

  • Art and Literature
  • Biographies
  • DNB Classics
  • General Articles
  • Interviews
  • LGBTQ+ Culture
  • Media and Entertainment
  • Opinion/Op-Eds
  • Queer Frameworks & Models
  • Queer Mental Health
  • Queer Sexual Health
  • Trending Now 🔥
  • True Life
Copyright © 2026 DNB Stories Africa.
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Instagram
  • YouTube