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Month: November 2017

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10 things to know before moving to Lagos

November 11, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Daniel Nkado Lagos is an interesting place. I’ve lived here for nearly 10 years now. It is a very fast-paced city. You must understand how to fit in, and …

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4 people arrested in Zimbabwe for booing Mugabe’s wife

November 10, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Four people have been arrested and accused of booing the first lady who this week moved closer to succeeding her husband as president. The Zimbabwe Herald reports …

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Blogger who faced death penalty for apostasy will be released

November 10, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer A Mauritanian blogger condemned to death in 2014 for apostasy in a Facebook post about Islam will be freed because an appeal court on Thursday overturned his …

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This world is NOTHING!

November 9, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Zeus My brothers and sisters, there is really nothing in this world o! A Yoruba slay queen (names withheld) was trying to dab and accidentally smelt her armpit. She …

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Top 5 makeup drag queens

November 9, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Staff writer A man who deliberately dresses up as a woman for the purpose of entertainment or fashion or business is called a drag queen. The process of getting …

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Too much bathing is unhealthy, research shows

November 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Staff writer   Some people don’t feel clean without a long hot shower. But is a daily shower really necessary—or even healthy? “I think showering is mostly for aesthetic …

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The person you like vs The person you don’t like

November 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Sharon A. The Person You Like: i. Late replies ii. One word replies iii. Reads and ignores B. The Person You Don’t Like: i. Good morning text ii. Good …

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New update on the Texas church shooting

November 6, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer Media reports say the man who killed at least 27 people including his grandmother-in-law at First Baptist Church in Sutherland Springs, Texas was 26-year-old Devin Patrick Kelley. …

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Samsung mercilessly mocks Apple in new ad

November 6, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Samsung and Apple have always been at odds, and when it comes to shading its opponent the Korean giant hardly plays it safe. As Apple’s big iPhone …

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The woman who lost her pregnancy, arms and legs but did not give up!

November 6, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer When Kayleigh Ferguson-Walker returned to church for the first time since losing her arms and legs, she wore a bright yellow dress. She sat in a wheelchair …

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Everyone wants to sit with Adele!

November 6, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 5 Comments.

by Miz Tee To find out the top celebrity people want to sit in a plane with, a fantasy travel research was designed. And guess who topped the list? ADELE! …

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Dad kills his son because he does not want a gay son

November 5, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer A father shot his 14-year-old son on discovering that he was gay. Henderson police in Nevada say 53-year-old Wendell Melton shot and killed his son Giovanni in …

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Old Sam Smith vs New Sam Smith

November 5, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Miz Tee This is Sam Smith before he lost weight and joined the beard gang: 1: Sam Smith’s new look: 2: The Stay With Me hit-maker has credited his …

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Roommates 5: Episode 11

November 4, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

The Visitor!!! It all started like every other normal Saturday. The sun came out early. Everybody in the house woke up late. There was light, and the air smelt lazy. …

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3 reasons JUNGLE is one of the best movies of 2017!

November 3, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Daniel Nkado To be honest, 2017 has seen a lot of awesome cinematic productions. With the likes of Wonder Woman, Get Out, IT (Horror), Dunkirk, Girls Trip, etc., no …

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Why are there so many churches in Nigeria?

November 3, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Gbenga Elutidoye Why are there so many churches in Nigeria? The real question should actually be why shouldn’t Nigeria have so many churches… Where do you expect all the …

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Beyoncé, Chiwetel Ejiofor and other big names in Disney’s new Lion King movie

November 2, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer US singer Beyoncé is taking a lead role in the live-action remake of Disney’s The Lion King. She will voice the role of lioness Nala, next to …

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“I Don’t Love My Wife”

November 2, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Mr Anonymous When I first met my wife, I was not attracted to her in the least. However, after she persisted for several weeks (we saw each other often …

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‘I’m gay, married and depressed’

November 1, 2017December 16, 2021 - by Daniel Nkado - 23 Comments.

by Mr Steve B.   11 May 2016:Hello everyone.This is very hard for me to share but I need to do it. I have been burying my head in the sand …

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