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Month: January 2018

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Short Story: The day my mother caught me!

January 13, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Zeus Okpala Several years ago, when I was 17, I was feeling lonely at home and a little horny. So I whipped out my stick and turned the volume …

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3 common reasons pet snakes attack their owners

January 13, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Donna Fernstrom In reality, pet snakes never actually attack their owners – or, at least, it’s very rare for them to do so. You’re more likely to be bitten …

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Once-a-week pill for HIV now in development

January 13, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Just 30 years ago, HIV was considered by many as a death sentence. Today, the virus can be successfully managed with antiretroviral drugs, which work by reducing …

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We don’t want to come to your ‘shithole’ country, Norwegians reply Trump

January 13, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Norwegians have expressed solidarity with Haiti and several other African nations maligned by President Donald Trump by saying they do not want to go to the US, …

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I’m straight but crave affection from my male friends…

January 13, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 8 Comments.

by Seeker I don’t know the best way to put this into words, because I really haven’t talked to anyone about it. I’m a straight guy in my early 20s …

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Gloria Ezeh: I finally found THE ONE!

January 13, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Gloria Ezeh The warm feelings of love have finally entered my heart and I’m happy about it. It happened yesterday. I went to the nearby supermarket to shop for …

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Arthur Ashe, his success, battle with HIV and inspiring reply to “Why Me?” question

January 12, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Usman Em Arthur Ashe is the first African American to win the men’s singles at Wimbledon and the first African-American man to be ranked No. 1 in the world. …

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My horrible experience dating a narcissist

January 12, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Amalia R. I unexpectedly found myself homeless and unemployed early this year, and was offered work at a backpackers hostel in exchange for accommodation. It might interest you to …

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Why allow people from “shithole countries”, Donald Trump asks

January 12, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer In bluntly vulgar language, U.S. President Donald Trump on Thursday questioned why the United States would want to have immigrants from Haiti and “shithole countries” in Africa …

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Why you shouldn’t HATE your father just yet

January 12, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Christi Zelaya It’s very common to see kids these days who admit they don’t like their father. My best advice would be to take things a little slower and …

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Who is a Yoruba Demon?

January 11, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Kayode Ogunranti The words Yoruba demon started as a joke on social media sometime around 2015 or so and has since gone on to become a tribal slur on …

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Is Nigeria’s Funke Akindele in the upcoming Avengers movie?

January 11, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Did Nollywood own Funke Akindele, aka Jenifa, snatch up a role in the upcoming Marvel’s Avengers movie? Yes!!! When Avengers: Infinity War is released this May, Nollywood …

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I wish I never had my SON!

January 11, 2018August 16, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Captain Joe This Saturday, my son will have been sober for 18 months. He got his GED [General Education Diploma, a set of tests that when passed certify the …

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Mother of H&M hoodie young model says nothing is wrong with controversial photo

January 10, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer Swedish clothing company H&M is currently facing plenty of backlash from the ad featuring a black boy wearing a sweatshirt that says, “Coolest Monkey In The Jungle.” …

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Why the H&M ‘Coolest Monkey’ hoodie is racist

January 10, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Seeing the tide of commentary from people lucky enough not to find the image of a black child in the H&M monkey hoodie offensive is amazing. First …

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Nigerian student jailed for stealing palm oil

January 10, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer A 21-year-old student, Sunday Anthony, was on Tuesday sentenced to 9 months imprisonment by a Nasarawa State high court, for stealing a bottle of palm oil. The …

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Are there countries with no night time?

January 10, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer The sun behaves differently in some parts of the world. A natural phenomenon called midnight sun occurs in the summer months of places north of the Arctic …

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Why the fried chicken and watermelon stereotype is offensive to black people

January 9, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Brian Collins During the days of slavery in the United States, the only meat that slaves had access to was chicken, because it was very cheap. During this time, …

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How vex money saved my life – 2

January 9, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 10 Comments.

by Miz Tee Read previous episodes HERE. *** TWO He took the seat across from me and asked if I wanted us to go inside. I could have said no …

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Why everyone wore black to the 2018 Golden Globes

January 9, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer On Sunday night, women and men overwhelmingly showed their support for the #MeToo and Time’s Up campaigns by wearing black to the 2018 Golden Globes. Time’s Up …

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4 reasons why people in abusive relationships don’t leave

January 8, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Jessica Margolin Why would anyone choose to stay — a question we often ask. Here are four reasons I’m aware of: 1. Stockholm Syndrome This is the propensity of …

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H&M racist ‘Monkey in the Jungle’ sweatshirt sparks public outrage

January 8, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Swedish multinational fast-fashion retailer has come under fire after showing a product photo of a black child model in a hoodie with the words “Coolest Monkey In …

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Short Story: London Goods

January 8, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Nduka Dike Nedu was stunned when he entered his room, it was sparkling clean. For some reason Hillary, his roommate, had scrubbed and completely refurbished the room. The TV, …

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The strange stone growing inside my stomach

January 8, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Angeli Adeen When I was fifteen, my insides started turning to stone. It came on gradually. At first, I noticed it only when I peed – an odd feeling, …

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Why did God create mosquitoes?

January 8, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Donnie Hallbar Mosquitoes could pass as one of the most obnoxious living creatures known to exist. But why did God really take his time to make such a horrible …

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Feminism and why being a man sucks

January 7, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Shanks Wang The name of the man in the picture below is Austin Hemmings. In 2008, a 26 year-old Auckland woman was approached by a man whom she recognized …

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Do people still read blogs?

January 6, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Do people still read blogs? Yes. Yes! I still read blogs. My sister, my girlfriend still read blogs! My class mates and colleagues at work still read …

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Love and Other Things that Follow – 7

January 6, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 7 Comments.

SEVEN Read previous chapters HERE: *** Susan opened the door and rushed through with her daughter. Baby Blossom looked confused, her brows fused together as if she was about to …

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Sam Smith on becoming a PROPER gay man

January 6, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer In a chat with friend Sarah Jessica Parker for V Magazine, English singer Sam Smith opened up about his evolving music, body image and growing into his …

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How vex money saved my life – 1

January 5, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 8 Comments.

by Miz Tee I told him I was busy, he said I shouldn’t worry—that it’d be worth it. I told him I don’t have transport fare, he said that it …

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No Game of Thrones until 2019!

January 5, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer The season 7 finale of much-loved TV show Game of Thrones left us all screaming one comment: Give us Season 8! Well, it is now official that …

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‘I have no advice for Lady Gaga,’ Céline Dion says

January 5, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Lady Gaga begins her two-year Vegas residency at the Monte Carlo Resort & Casino in December, but when news broke that Lady Gaga would be heading to …

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The very brutal death of King Charles II of England

January 3, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer No doubt, King Charles II of England deserves a mention among the list of those who suffered the most brutal deaths in human history. Modern doctors agree …

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Where poor people live in New York City

January 2, 2018May 6, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Vietnhi Phuvan Of course one of the most expensive places to live in America is New York City. But not everyone living in New York City can afford to …

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The horrible Christmas I will never forget…

January 1, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Mark Condon It was December 25, 2004, a beautiful Christmas day here in Canada. I was 9 years old at the time, and my parents had just been recently …

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