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Home » Archives for May 2017 » Page 2

Month: May 2017

DNB Classics

“The bad thing my son did that made me proud”

May 14, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Ranjini Shankar I believe I’ve shared this story somewhere else, but the story still cracks me up each time I remember it so I feel it’s worth sharing again. …

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DNB Classics

The true privileges of men

May 14, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Sujatha Shankar As a woman, I truly believe, ‘Men are given special privilege by the Almighty’, and I envy them for the same. Some of the wonderful ways in …

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General Articles

How many times do we celebrate Mother’s Day in a year?

May 14, 2017May 8, 2022 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Mother’s Day is a global celebration honouring the mother of a person, as well as motherhood, maternal bonds, and the influence of mothers in society.It is celebrated …

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DNB Classics

Two more suspected cases of Ebola identified in Congo

May 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

Health experts have identified two more suspected cases of Ebola in Democratic Republic of Congo, a day after the government declared that an outbreak of the disease has killed one …

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DNB Classics

Difference between Yoruba and Igbo trader

May 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Miz Tee IGBO WOMAN: Customer: Madam, how much is your yam? Igbo Woman: Just N1000, nne. Customer: For this small yam, sell 250 jor. Igbo Woman: Awu, fine girl, …

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“The Secret I Share With My Stepfather”

May 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Anonymous My stepfather is one of the worst humans I know in my life. He is emotionally and verbally abusive to my mother, myself, and my other siblings. He …

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DNB Classics

The small mammal that kills itself with sex!

May 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Of all the species that practise the rather strange reproductive strategy called semelparity or suicidal reproduction, in which animals concentrate all their reproductive energies into one bout of …

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DNB Classics

Between Daniel Nkado and Pastor Mathew…

May 12, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Zeus Pastor Mathew: Gluttony is a very big sin, you know that?  Daniel Nkado: Pastor Mathew: Turn to the book of Proverbs 23:2, let me share a word with …

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“I Regret Having Children”

May 12, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Ms Anon. Though very few will admit it because it’s socially a taboo to do so (hence my anonymity), but having children is not one of the best things …

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DNB Classics

4 snakes that eat other snakes

May 11, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer In the snake kingdom, the only way to become king is to feed on other snakes. Here are four snakes who are masters in the game of …

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DNB Classics

Has President Buhari failed Nigeria?

May 11, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Femi Moito In my opinion, President Muhammadu Buhari hasn’t failed Nigeria. He just destroyed the economy and the short-term future of at least 70 million Nigerians. If that isn’t …

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True Life

“I Finally Decided I Have Had Enough”

May 11, 2017May 6, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Petra P It was yesterday that I finally decided I have had enough! For all my life I have been a very insecure person, always trying to be the …

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DNB Classics

How are atheists buried when they die?

May 10, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Ian Quayle My wife is a humanist celebrant (a person who conducts humanist, nonreligious, and inter-religious weddings, funerals, child namings and other life rituals). She was accredited by the …

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DNB Classics

5 habits that increase the risk of developing throat cancer

May 10, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Cancer is a class of diseases in which abnormal cells multiply and divide uncontrollably in the body. These abnormal cells form malignant growths called tumors. Throat cancer …

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DNB Classics

5 cute animals with very nasty behaviour

May 10, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Humans have a tendency of romanticizing the rest of the natural world. We are aware the we humans aren’t so great – we destroy natural resources, harm …

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DNB Classics

Take our quick survey to help us serve you better!

May 10, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

Please tell us in your comment under this post what browser you surf DNB Stories with. We are trying to add some new features and we need this information for …

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True Life

“A Secret That I Have Never Told Anyone”

May 9, 2017May 1, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Miss Anonymous I am Indian. Once, I saw my mom almost have sex with another man when I was really young. She doesn’t know that I saw her. They …

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DNB Classics

12 simple things that will surprisingly make you happy

May 9, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Nivedita Shrivastava Happiness is extremely inexpensive. Real happiness comes from tiny little things…well, for me, that is. Here are 12 simple things that can give you real happiness: 1. …

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DNB Classics

When you offend Patience Ozokwor…

May 9, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Zeus When you offend Patience Ozokwor, this is the result:

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General Articles

Marriage, an outdated institution?

May 9, 2017May 6, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by John Colagioia Frankly speaking, marriage has never been necessary, at least not for most people. I mean, in the broadest sense of it, marriage is one or both of …

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DNB Classics

Plants know when they are being eaten, study shows

May 9, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer The idea that plants have some level of awareness isn’t new, but a study from the University of Missouri suggests it goes further than initially expected. According …

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DNB Classics

DNB Style Showcase – Promote your style business for free!

May 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Gloria Ezeh Because we are well aware of the amount of commitment that goes into running a style business, we’ve decided to put together a little something for the …

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DNB Classics

“How God Saved My Mum”

May 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Sanchari Sengupta I’ve always believed in God, that’s how I was raised in my family. I don’t pray regularly, but I keep up these one-sided conversations with “the Universe”, …

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DNB Classics

“My Little Dark Secret”

May 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Deepika Mathur So after sharing this story it will no longer be a secret. But I am not scared. The people who really matter to me already know about …

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DNB Classics

“The Wodaabe’s wife stealing dance”

May 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer The Wodaabe are a small subgroup of the Fulani ethnic group. They are traditionally nomadic cattle-herders and traders in the Sahel. Known for their elaborate attire and …

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DNB Classics

How to become a true slay queen

May 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Miz Tee This is your journey to joining the slaying gang. 1. This is you: 2. At the entrance and you meet the neighbors 2. Inside the hall and …

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DNB Classics

“The day you die will feel like June 5th 1642”

May 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Ariel Williams You die and you are gone. The body decomposes. It is like a switch was turned off to a computer and it no longer has power. The …

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DNB Classics

Is Daniel Nkado an atheist?

May 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Daniel Nkado I always try to keep my religious status out of the way, even though living in Nigeria without a religion is nearly an impossible thing to do.  You know, …

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DNB Classics

What stops atheists from committing crimes?

May 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Ward Chanley We’ve developed conscience and empathy because it helps to ensure our survival. We’re a social species. We organize into social groups, and conscience and empathy are useful …

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The gay king who ruled in Africa before the British invasion

May 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer A commonly cited reason for maintaining, or expanding, criminalisation of homosexuality in Africa is that it is “un-African” or, in other words, a foreign phenomenon. But do you …

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DNB Classics

Someone is suggesting Donald Trump has dementia

May 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Recently, on a popular question-and-answer site, someone gave reasons he is seriously feeling US President Donald Trump is suffering from dementia. Laslo Kovacs, an automobile analyst, wrote: …

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DNB Classics

5 animals you really should be afraid of

May 6, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer While encountering a lion may look like the most terrifying thing on earth, these 5 animals have killed more people than a lion ever will. 1. Mosquitoes …

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DNB Classics

“How I found out my wife was cheating”

May 6, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Phil Samson I found out about my wife’s cheating in the most unusual way. One night my wife came home from being with friends at the school where she …

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DNB Classics

Authors’ Haven: Nominate your favorite writers

May 6, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

Gone are the days when one needs a publisher to publish and/or even sell their books. This is the era of self-publishing and the news is exceptionally great for writers …

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Media and Entertainment

“It is not the responsibility of children to take care of their parents” – Bisi Alimi

May 5, 2017June 25, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Staff writer Nigerian out activist, Bisi Alimi, in a recent online post said it is not the responsibility of children, who have become independent, to care for their aged …

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DNB Classics

“Zimbabwe second-most developed country in Africa” – Mugabe

May 5, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Zimbabwe is the most highly developed country in Africa after South Africa, President Robert Mugabe has said. The 93-year-old leader of Zimbabwe who is seeking reelection next …

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DNB Classics

“The midwife who saved intersex babies in Africa”

May 5, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

Five years ago a midwife in Kenya delivered a child with both male and female sexual organs. The father told her to kill it, but instead she hid it and …

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DNB Classics

Winner of ‘Miss Black’ pageant faces backlash from people who claim ‘she is not black enough’

May 5, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

Rachael Malonson was crowned ‘Miss Black University of Texas’ on Sunday.  However, people took to Twitter to say judges chose the lightest skinned contestant. Malonson said she was taken aback …

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DNB Classics

Met Gala 2017: Rihanna and her bunch of quirky friends

May 4, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Gloria Ezeh One thing to be understood about the Met Gala, the annual fundraising gala for the benefit of the Metropolitan Museum of Art’s Costume Institute in New York …

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DNB Classics

Straight men more likely to sleep with other men after taking alcohol, study shows

May 3, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer A new study published in the The Journal of Social Psychology has concluded that alcohol increases straight men and women’s attraction to people of the same sex. …

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DNB Classics

Some antibiotics can cause miscarriage, new study says

May 2, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Taking certain types of antibiotics during early pregnancy may lead to an increased risk of miscarriage, according to a new study from Canada. The study, published in …

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DNB Classics

Happy New Month!

May 1, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

From all of us at DNB, HAPPY NEW MONTH. *** Enjoy the holiday with this song:

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