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Nigerian nursing assistant arrested in the US for breaking old woman’s leg

May 30, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer A Nigerian nursing assistant intentionally broke his 98-year-old patient’s leg before she died while undergoing surgery to fix it, police say. Hakim Ogunkunle, 43, is facing aggravated …

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My Doubts About Heaven

May 29, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Unlike Daniel, I am not an atheist and I consider finding myself in heaven as the ultimate purpose of my faith in God. But when I came …

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Do you have trypophobia? Why so many people fear holes…

May 29, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 5 Comments.

by Staff writer There is a strange, rather unpopular phobia that makes people feel panicky or ill at the sight of holes. According to Live Science, the sight of clusters …

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General Articles

2 people share their stories of what Barack and Michelle Obama were like before they became famous

May 29, 2017May 1, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer   Two people share their Obama-Before-Fame story: Former security official Keven Farmer says: “I grew up 4 blocks from the Robinson family, played basketball with Michelle’s older …

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If you are experiencing issues with our site, use Google Chrome

May 29, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Gloria Ezeh Hi Angels: This is for those that contacted us to express concerns about some difficulties they are facing in opening DNB Stories. We’d like to assure you …

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No, happiness is not a choice!

May 28, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Daniel Nkado I always hear people saying that happiness is a choice. I call this statement bullsh*t. First, happiness is not a choice, it is an emotion. We cannot …

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12 most difficult countries to visit in the world

May 28, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Nearly everyone enjoys travelling. There are various reasons to travel, such as education, business, leisure or recreation. Travel is an essential part of life and we can’t …

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Death is the most beautiful thing about life

May 28, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Deepak Morris The road up to the time of our death can be very scary. No one actually wants to die unless there are extreme circumstances – but scientists …

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White House accused of homophobia after excluding first gentleman of Luxembourg from photo caption

May 28, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer     Donald Trump’s administration has been accused of homophobia after excluding the first gentleman of Luxembourg from a photo caption. The White House sparked a backlash …

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Sex Education in Nigeria…

May 27, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer This is what sex education in Nigeria looks like:

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Will you sell your dog for $100, 000?

May 27, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer So this guy made a social experiment video asking people if they’d be willing to sell their dogs for $100, 000. Almost all those he asked turned …

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Woman accused of paying 15-year-old boy for sex

May 27, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer A woman from Port St. Lucie, Florida is accused of paying a child hundreds of dollars for sex, police say. Police arrested 38-year-old Rebecca McGraw Thursday on …

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The red liquid you see in fresh meat is not BLOOD!

May 27, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Seeing a blood-like liquid oozing out of fresh or under-cooked meat when you cut into it is a pretty common sight. Because a lot of people think …

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The sad story of Judith Barsi, the child actress killed by her father

May 26, 2017January 7, 2021 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer On June 6, 1978, a star was born. Judith Eva Barsi began her television career at the early age of 5 when she was discovered at a …

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Crab bites woman’s vagina at beach thinking it was an oyster

May 26, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Staff writer A 28-year-old Singaporean woman who decided to sunbathe naked at Changi Beach has received a laceration to her vagina after she was bitten by a crab, Sunday …

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Don’t open this post if you hate snakes…

May 26, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Don’t open this post if you hate snakes… 1. Two snakes in love kissing and necking in the sand   2. A black mamba and a mongoose …

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Love Story: Write About Me, Please?

May 26, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Shubham Awasthi “Do you write a blog?” she asked. Her voice was soft and sweet. “Yes, I do,” I answered, and then added, “recently started actually.” “What’s it about? …

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Screaming babies were used to motivate ancient warriors during battle?

May 25, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer If you have ever seen, spent time with or (Blood of God!) live with a colicky baby, this will make perfect sense to you. When a baby …

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Rihanna continues to ‘slay’ fashion

May 25, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer It is no longer news that when it comes to fashion, playing it safe is never an option for Rihanna. From no-bra tops to gigantic sleeves, Rihanna …

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The loneliest organism in the world was found in Africa

May 25, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer One day in 1895, while walking through the Ngoya Forest in Zululand, southern Africa, a botanist with the oh so suitable name of John Medley Wood caught …

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The Reverend Sister who died smiling

May 25, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Sister Cecilia Maria lived in Saints Teresa and Joseph Monastery in Santa Fe, Argentina, dedicated to prayer and the contemplative life. She passed away in June 23, …

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Katy Perry’s ‘Bon Appétit’ soon to become a smash hit?

May 24, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer When almost exactly a month ago, Katy Perry dropped the second single from her upcoming fifth studio album Witness, fans were not so impressed. The track debuted …

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The horrible story of the Papin Sisters

May 24, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer The strange case of the Papin sisters is notable not only for its shocking violence but because the gender of both the perpetrators and victims was female. …

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Hillary Clinton caught on camera practising how to avoid Donald Trump’s hug

May 24, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Video evidence has emerged of Hillary Clinton practicing how to avoid an unwanted hug from Donald Trump in front of the cameras at their first debate. Much …

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Surviving a dog attack: 5 important tips

May 24, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Rabies occurs in more than 150 countries and territories in the world. According to WHO, dog bites are the main source of human rabies deaths, contributing up …

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8-year-old girl among the 22 Manchester bombing victims

May 23, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer An 8-year-old girl is among the first identified victims of the bombing attack in Manchester, England. The girl, Saffie Rose Roussos, from Lancashire in northwest England, was …

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Funny pictures compilation by Zeus

May 23, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Zeus #LOL

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“2 things that happened to me that I can’t explain”

May 23, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Catherine Girod I am not a religious person and don’t believe in superstitious stuff. But a couple experiences can’t really be explained any other way. Years ago, I was …

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“I want some ice cream”

May 23, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Zeus There was an elderly couple who in their old age noticed that they were getting a lot more forgetful, so they decided to go to the doctor. The …

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Very remarkable thing that happened at a birthday party!

May 22, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Gudosky One Onitsha girl was gisting her girlfriend about her experience at a party: “Hmm, Ngozi my sister, if I tell you what happened at Emeka’s birthday party on …

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Céline Dion wows audience at the Billboard Awards

May 22, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

It’s been 20 years since we were first blown away by Céline Dion’s performance of the “Titanic” theme song “My Heart Will Go On.” Still, when the French Canadian singer …

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A farmer and his two cows

May 22, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Zeus   A reporter came upon a farm. He met the farmer and asked: Interviewer: How much milk do these cows give? Farmer: Which one? The black one or …

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Meet the woman who fears pregnancy so much she deletes friends on Facebook

May 22, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer A woman has spoken out about her crippling fear of pregnancy which has cost her hundreds of pounds in pregnancy tests and left her unable to look …

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Is Beyoncé exploiting her African statements?

May 22, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Gloria Ezeh We now know that added to making good music and dancing, Beyoncé is also talented in carrying belle. After her Instagram pregnancy photo broke the internet, Beyoncé …

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A tradition in Tanzania allows women to marry fellow women

May 22, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 6 Comments.

by Gloria Ezeh Tanzania, the largest country in East Africa, includes the spice islands of Zanzibar, Pemba, and Mafia and contains Africa’s tallest mountain— the Kilimanjaro! In a remote village …

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This short story will mess with your mind…

May 21, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Daniel Nkado An elderly man was standing alone on a dark path. He wasn’t sure of which direction to go, and he’d forgotten both where he was traveling to…and …

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Meet the man who invented ‘Copy and Paste’

May 21, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer It is a technique used so often in day-to-day computer life that we now take it for granted, but can you really imagine a modern world without …

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Men can dance too!

May 20, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Generally believed is that women make better dancers than men. A lot of men also consider dancing a feminine activity and would not devote as much time …

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The Truth and Untruth about Igbo and Yoruba Rivalry

May 20, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Odumorun I almost always find the common rivalry between the Igbos and Yorubas quite amusing, if occasionally trying. Tribalism is not caused by the presence of tribes. It is …

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“If you want to succeed in life, don’t tell anyone.”

May 20, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Art Markman Telling people about your plans will decrease your chances of succeeding, study shows… I am a regular reader of the New York Times obituaries. It fascinates me …

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Poem: I Am Me

May 20, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 5 Comments.

by Daniel Nkado I am strange I don’t do like you do Eat, drink, sing or sleep like you I am different I am me I am poor I don’t …

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How birth order affects your personality and behaviour

May 20, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Whether you’re the first-born, middle child, last-born, or only child, birth order can have a big effect on your personality and behavior. Though nothing in life is …

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Top 10 countries where men have the biggest penis size

May 19, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 5 Comments.

by Staff writer An African country is Number One! Don’t know why Nigeria is missing from the list though…

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Can a mother recognize her newborn baby she had never seen before?

May 19, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Staff writer If you take a woman’s baby away right after birth and put it in a group of other newborn babies, would the mother be able to find …

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“You will never know how bad Nigeria is until you visit other countries”

May 18, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by W. Dee You never know how bad a country is until you depart from it, view other countries and then return. Let me give you a great lot of …

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The time lions rescued a kidnapped African girl

May 18, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Abductions, which lead to marriage, are rife in rural parts of Ethiopia. In early June, 2005, a 12-year-old girl was kidnapped by four men on her way …

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Where would you rather be?

May 17, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 6 Comments.

by Staff writer Below are 8 destination choices. Out of them all, where would you rather be? Your answer will determine the kind of person you are. Note that you …

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My Sad First Love

May 16, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Matt I was with this girl for almost 4 years. I met her when I was 18 and she was 16. I fell in love with her. After about …

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The Priest and the Nun

May 15, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Zeus A priest was driving along and saw a nun on the side of the road. He stopped and offered her a lift which she accepted. She got in …

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The bridge in Scotland where dogs go to commit suicide

May 15, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer Located near the village of Milton in Dumbarton, Scotland, exists a bridge that for some reason or another, has been attracting suicidal dogs since the early 60s. …

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“The bad thing my son did that made me proud”

May 14, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Ranjini Shankar I believe I’ve shared this story somewhere else, but the story still cracks me up each time I remember it so I feel it’s worth sharing again. …

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The true privileges of men

May 14, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Sujatha Shankar As a woman, I truly believe, ‘Men are given special privilege by the Almighty’, and I envy them for the same. Some of the wonderful ways in …

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General Articles

How many times do we celebrate Mother’s Day in a year?

May 14, 2017May 8, 2022 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Mother’s Day is a global celebration honouring the mother of a person, as well as motherhood, maternal bonds, and the influence of mothers in society.It is celebrated …

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Two more suspected cases of Ebola identified in Congo

May 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

Health experts have identified two more suspected cases of Ebola in Democratic Republic of Congo, a day after the government declared that an outbreak of the disease has killed one …

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Difference between Yoruba and Igbo trader

May 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Miz Tee IGBO WOMAN: Customer: Madam, how much is your yam? Igbo Woman: Just N1000, nne. Customer: For this small yam, sell 250 jor. Igbo Woman: Awu, fine girl, …

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“The Secret I Share With My Stepfather”

May 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Anonymous My stepfather is one of the worst humans I know in my life. He is emotionally and verbally abusive to my mother, myself, and my other siblings. He …

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The small mammal that kills itself with sex!

May 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Of all the species that practise the rather strange reproductive strategy called semelparity or suicidal reproduction, in which animals concentrate all their reproductive energies into one bout of …

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Between Daniel Nkado and Pastor Mathew…

May 12, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Zeus Pastor Mathew: Gluttony is a very big sin, you know that?  Daniel Nkado: Pastor Mathew: Turn to the book of Proverbs 23:2, let me share a word with …

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“I Regret Having Children”

May 12, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Ms Anon. Though very few will admit it because it’s socially a taboo to do so (hence my anonymity), but having children is not one of the best things …

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4 snakes that eat other snakes

May 11, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer In the snake kingdom, the only way to become king is to feed on other snakes. Here are four snakes who are masters in the game of …

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