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Why we love the wrong people

February 25, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Nicole Gravagna When we have feelings for people, it’s often because we’ve identified that person as a good source of fulfilling our needs. Yes, that’s the non-romantic truth of …

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DNB Classics

No Oscar for Wonder Woman but Gal Gadot isn’t bothered

February 24, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Gloria Ezeh Despite being one of the most successful movies of 2017, Wonder Woman was not nominated for an Oscar in any category. The snub came as a surprise …

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DNB Classics

Who is RIGHT in Black Panther?

February 24, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Black Panther! What a movie. When I got the ticket to go see it (yes, writers at DNB Stories are often given tickets to go see a …

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Do parrots know what they are saying or are they just repeating sounds?

February 24, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Michael Goble I have owned parrots for almost 20 years and dogs for almost 30 years. One of my parrots, a green-cheeked conure, has the largest vocabulary I’ve ever …

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DNB Classics

30 and feeling hopeless? READ my story!

February 23, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by C. R. Swanson When I was 30, I wasn’t getting anywhere in life. I was living in a single rented room, working a part-time job, barely keeping my life …

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DNB Classics

When you download the WRONG Black Panther movie…

February 23, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Zeus You have to be very careful which Panther you get!!!

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DNB Classics

3 people describe how it feels to be examined by a doctor of the opposite sex

February 22, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Three people describe how it feels to be examined by a doctor of the opposite sex: 1. He shoved his long fingers inside me: Shiloh Isha, a …

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Meet the Dahomey Amazons – the real-life African women fighters that inspired Black Panther’s Dora Milaje

February 22, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Do you know that the on-screen bodyguards of Wakanda in Marvel’s Black Panther called Dora Milaje are actually inspired by a real-life tribe of African women fighters …

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DNB Classics

Men Issues? Nobody wants to hear them!

February 22, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Dan Bell A few days ago I was at a party in liberal north-east London, when I was asked the inevitable question, “So, what do you do then?” It’s …

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DNB Classics

4 people mention the rudest celebrities they’ve ever met!

February 22, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Miz Tee When random people were asked online to name the rudest celebrities they’ve ever had a chance of meeting, guess which names they listed… 1. Justin Bieber: Zach …

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Tyler Perry after watching Black Panther…

February 21, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

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DNB Classics

Short Story: I Know When You Stopped Loving Me

February 21, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Daniel Nkado I noticed when you stopped looking at me like you used to. You used to look at me like I was the most amazing person to walk …

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DNB Classics

Chadwick Boseman reveals what’s underneath the Black Panther costume

February 21, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Gloria Ezeh With a stunning worldwide grossing of $404 million in just 5 days of its release, Marvel’s Black Panther has become the biggest February debut of all time, …

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Check out stunning outfits at Black Panther South Africa premiere

February 20, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Movie premieres are not a common occurrence in South Africa, but to Africans (anybody of African descent really), Black Panther is not just any film. The South …

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DNB Classics

My View of Lagos, as a White Lady

February 20, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Maryana Pinchuk I just got back from a week stay in Lagos, Nigeria and I’m a blindingly white (an obvious Westerner) It’s not dangerous if you understand the situation …

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General Articles

Why black people are better runners and white people are better swimmers

February 20, 2018December 1, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Since 1968, the world record holders in the men’s 100-meter dash have been black athletes. In fact, 28 out of the last 38 world record holders in …

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DNB Classics

3 things you probably don’t know about Ne-Yo

February 19, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Miz Tee American RnB singer and songwriter Ne-Yo is one artist whose success in the entertainment industry cannot be denied. Here are 3 things you probably don’t know about …

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Media and Entertainment

Woman says NO to marriage after receiving kidney from lover

February 19, 2018May 6, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Miz Tee A man who donated a kidney to the woman he loves was overjoyed at saving her life – but saddened when she turned down his proposal. Simon …

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DNB Classics

The real problems with FEMINISM

February 19, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Alexandra Pell Of course there are problems with feminism. All movements, whether large or small, have problems. Let me put it this way: there are a lot of problematic …

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DNB Classics

Men struggling with body image issues tell their stories!

February 18, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Once not normally associated with men and was deemed a female ‘thing’, more and more men are now concerned about their physical appearance. With the increase in …

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DNB Classics

Meet the Nigerian blogger campaigning for ‘saggy boobs’

February 18, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Chidera Eggerue, a 23-year-old award-winning blogger, is the driving force behind Saggy Boobs Matter, an online movement that challenges unrealistic expectations of what breasts should look like. …

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DNB Classics

“I am a feminist BUT my girlfriend is NOT”

February 17, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Justin Lowery Yes, in our relationship, I’m the feminist. My girlfriend tells me that my being a feminist both frustrates her and makes her a better person at the …

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DNB Classics

This drag queen’s makeup transformation will shock you!

February 17, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Miz Tee Drag queens work magic with makeup. They are known to have some of the best makeup techniques that this world has to offer, due to their commitment …

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DNB Classics

Why childbirth is so painful for humans

February 17, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Pat Lee Shipman Humans are funny mammals. Among other things, we walk oddly (on two legs) and we have curiously big brains. We bear large babies with active and …

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DNB Classics

A real encounter with a SUCCUBUS demon!

February 16, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Stephen Wagner A few people have had the misfortunate of meeting real demons in their lives. One such entity that some people encounter is a succubus. A succubus is …

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DNB Classics

I just saw Black Panther and I wasn’t that IMPRESSED!

February 16, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Elke Weiss I just came back from the theatre and I must say I felt a little under-dressed. I was, actually, but that is another story. Theatre goers were …

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DNB Classics

The lesbian romance that was deleted from Black Panther

February 16, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Miz Tee There are reports of a lesbian romance that didn’t make it to the final version of Black Panther movie. When the film was announced, fans were excited …

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DNB Classics

Another Black Panther hate tweet busted!

February 16, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Gloria Ezeh The things we see on Twitter these days! So this handle (@AsianWifeHaver) sent this tweet about how his girlfriend was attacked by a ‘black teenager’ when they …

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DNB Classics

The real-life story behind Beauty and the Beast

February 16, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer It’s truly a tale as old as time. While the famous Disney cartoon might have looked too fictitious to be true, believe it or not, Beauty and …

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DNB Classics

5 best places to LIVE in Lagos – A foreigner’s opinion

February 15, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Jessica Thomas Lagos city’s overpowering appeal has grown a little stronger with the presence of awesome places to stay, beautiful attractions and a homely environment. The city of Lagos …

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DNB Classics

7 things I do to survive in Lagos, Nigeria

February 15, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Paul Ategie Being successful is a highly relative term. I don’t know if I can call myself successful or not, but I will share with you a couple of …

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DNB Classics

“I think my colleague is faking her pregnancy…”

February 15, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Miz Tee Everybody knows that you need to be careful what you say to a pregnant woman. Commenting on her size is a big no-no, as is telling her …

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DNB Classics

Meet South Africa’s new president, Cyril Ramaphosa!

February 15, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Cyril Ramaphosa has become South Africa’s president after embattled leader Jacob Zuma resigned. The new president was the only candidate nominated in parliament on Thursday and the …

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DNB Classics

Am I living with a narcissist?

February 15, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Maria I am very sure I’m living with a narcissist. He is my child’s father, and my little girl is my life, but I can’t wait to get away …

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DNB Classics

Nigerian Obama painter is also associated with Michael Jackson and Beyoncé

February 15, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer If you didn’t know artist Kehinde Wiley before, there’s every possibility you now will. He is the painter behind former President Barack Obama’s stunning official portrait, which …

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General Articles

Why you may enjoy watching Netflix’s horror movie, The Ritual

February 14, 2018May 1, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Paul Tassi The past few months has brought out a host of Netflix original moves, including a number of horror entries ranging from the campy and fun (The Babysitter) …

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DNB Classics

Why is LOVE represented with RED?

February 14, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Sonali Jain Red is the color of extremes. It’s the color of passionate love, seduction, violence, danger, anger, and adventure. Our prehistoric ancestors saw red as the color of …

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Awkward things that happen during Valentine outing!

February 14, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Miz Tee Dates on Valentine’s Day can get a little awkward, can’t they? You have restaurants full of couples all over each other, or even worse, sat in complete …

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DNB Classics

Guess the songs we’re playing you for Valentine?

February 14, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by DNB All-Editors “We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are …

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The DARK history behind Valentine’s Day

February 13, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Caitlin McBride For some, Valentine’s Day is a chance to embrace commercialism and guilt your partner into a date night; for others, it’s a reminder of another day they’d …

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DNB Classics

I live in a ‘shithole country.’ It’s called the United States.

February 13, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Josh Hoxie It takes a level of pomposity inconceivable to most of us to describe another country as a “shithole.” It’s unfortunately just one more of the obnoxious, racist, …

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DNB Classics

The day my penis embarrassed me at the hospital

February 13, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Mr Will Taylor I already had a daughter with my first wife, and was getting very serious with my girlfriend (hadn’t popped the question, yet, but was seriously considering …

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My bittersweet experience giving birth to my daughter

February 13, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Valkyrie Rae It was horrible. I woke up at 3 am with a terrible back pain, thinking, “Oh, I must’ve pulled a muscle or something”. So for some reason …

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Hotel in Africa prefers to employ white men and Indians over Africans

February 13, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer At a time when nations are paying special attention to their own citizens over foreigners for employment, a hotel in Uganda posted this vacancy advert in a …

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Funny video of mad man dancing to Whitney Houston’s song

February 12, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Miz Tee This video will definitely make your day!!!

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DNB Classics

The UGLY side of FAME

February 12, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Than Wu Today, the biggest epidemic on the planet regarding human psychology is that everybody wants to be famous. We now live in a fame-obsessed culture. All social media …

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DNB Classics

Lupita Nyong’o talks about her hair, Black Panther and FAME

February 12, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Miz Tee Oscar-winning actress Lupita Nyong’o covered the March 2018 issue of Allure magazine. Speaking to Allure Magazine’s editor in chief Michelle Lee, the Kenyan-Mexican actress opened up about …

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True Life

7 people describe how they had the WORST Valentine last year

February 12, 2018May 11, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Miz Tee Thinking you are having the worst of Valentine this year? Well, think again! 1. Jenny said: My boyfriend left me on the evening three days before Valentine’s …

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General Articles

My six greatest shocks while attending Cornell University in 2016

February 11, 2018May 18, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Connor Strynkowski The 8 members of the Ivy League, chiefly known by their academic excellence, selectivity in admissions and social elitism, are: 1. Brown University 2. Columbia University 3. …

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DNB Classics

How I finally walked away from my mother!

February 11, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Vanessa M Three months before my brother died in June of 2013, I ran into him at my aunt’s house. I hadn’t seen him in over a year. We …

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DNB Classics

So Sick and Tired of Living – My Life’s Story

February 10, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Mr Raul Every time I go after something that I want or something that will make me happy, it falls apart and blows up in my face. 4 years …

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DNB Classics

Why most Americans are BROKE

February 10, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Keith Albert There is a quick and basic explanation as to why most Americans are broke. Firstly, the odds that one will succeed financially in the US are stacked …

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It’s tough to date a rich man…self-made ones are WORSE

February 9, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Kate Mulvey Like any other girl, I like luxury. So when a handsome man I met at a party invited me to dinner, I didn’t hesitate. ‘Pick you up …

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DNB Classics

Meet the Nigerian man behind the popular ‘Roll Safe’ meme

February 9, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Miz Tee Kayode Ewumi was born on 2nd November, 1993 in London, the middle child of an English-Nigerian family. He read drama and theatre studies amongst other subjects at …

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DNB Classics

The embarrassing thing that happened at my friend’s wedding!

February 8, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Roxanne Padilla After 15 years of marriage, my friend decided to leave his wife for his high school sweetheart. He recently had rekindled his relationship with her when they …

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DNB Classics

Biologically, LOVE does not exist

February 8, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Jason Real So you bumped into that extremely hot boy or girl at the mall and you feel your heart stop for a second. Your stomach fill up with …

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DNB Classics

Finally, the meaning of LIFE!

February 8, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Juanita Fourie “What is the meaning of life, Teacher?” the young boy asked The Philosopher one afternoon on a day that was neither restless nor restful. A perfect day …

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Australian scholarship opportunities and offers for African students

February 8, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer The Government of Australia offers numerous opportunities for scholarships, grants, and bursaries which can help support you financially with your studies in Australia.Asides the government, Australian educational …

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Why Nigeria is a ‘shithole’ country

February 6, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Uche Metuh I was still a young girl in Nigeria when the Anambra State Government refused to pay the workers at the Anambra State Water Board. It was the …

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Why am I not DEAD yet?

February 6, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Ossama Suleiman In 2009, I was diagnosed with glioblastoma, a grade 4 brain cancer. After surgery, the oncologist came back with the sad news that my statistics look quite …

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