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My neighbor and his many uncomfortable gifts…

December 28, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Sanyukta Shukla I have a neighbor, an older man, always smiling, and very fond of my daughter. Our sweet neighbor got gifts for my daughter when she was 2–3 …

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Check if WhatsApp will work on your phone from Dec 31

December 27, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Popular mobile messaging app WhatsApp will stop working on a number of platforms from December 31, the company has confirmed. The Facebook-owned messaging app will drop support …

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Are people without kids happier?

December 27, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Are people without kids happier? Parenting is no joke. But now a new study shows that in the U.S., people who have children are actually less happy …

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DNB Classics

The ‘gay super uncle theory’ and the evolutionary benefit of gay men

December 27, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Dr Ransome Just in case you have not heard, there is a theory that suggests that the evolutionary role of gay men is to serve as “super uncles” who …

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“I don’t have any kids but I’m happy”

December 26, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Cindy Bufford I don’t have any kids but I’m happy. When I was young and married, the choice wasn’t mine to make. My husband’s low sperm count made the …

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True Life

My 18 years battle with BREAST CANCER

December 26, 2017May 6, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Rachel Jerdin In January, 2000, I was diagnosed with breast cancer, Stage II. The cancer itself never caused me any pain. Everything changed when I started chemotherapy. I was …

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DNB Classics

Short Story: Papa Christmas

December 25, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Daniel Nkado Grandpa is tall and lean. Even with the so many wrinkles on his face you can always still tell he is Daddy’s father. Somehow. Their smiles are …

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Fa’afafine – The men brought up as women in Samoa

December 24, 2017December 22, 2021 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Living alone in a tiny house just outside the Savai’i village of Alaolemativa, Hazy Pau Talauati is a Samoan man who dresses and lives as a woman. …

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2 straight men marry each other to avoid tax bill

December 24, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Two best friends who say they love each other — “as friends” — got hitched on Friday in Dublin. But instead of marrying for love, they did …

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Easy way to know if your husband is cheating!

December 24, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer There are many signs that might indicate that your husband might be cheating. For one, if he never leaves his phone out of his sight and takes …

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5 simple tips on surviving the harmattan

December 24, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Daniel Nkado Cracked lips, racking chilliness, road-side dust attacks, the season we all dread is here. Single guys mostly. Truth is, harmattan is nobody’s friend. But as good-natured and …

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“AIDS” or “Huts” – What did Donald Trump say about Nigerians?

December 23, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer In a comprehensive New York Times report on President Trump’s harsh immigration policy published on Saturday, one event stands out. As the paper sets the scene, US …

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Who is Santa’s wife?

December 23, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer There are many legends about who Santa Claus was and is. Mrs. Claus has been given a few different names depending on what history (or movie) you …

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Homosexuality, nature’s way of controlling population?

December 23, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Centuries ago, a British scholar named Thomas Malthus convinced English nobles that civilization had surpassed the Earth’s carrying capacity and that famine was imminent. Since this first …

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How men feel about ABORTIONS

December 22, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Angelina Chapin Talk to women who’ve had abortions, and you’ll hear horror stories about male partners who try to force them into a decision, downplay the situation or ghost …

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20 kinds of people who can never be HAPPY in life

December 22, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Shreoshi Dutta Twenty kinds of people who can never be happy in life: 1. People who overthink everything and worry too much. 2. People who won’t stop chasing after …

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Flash Story: My Mother’s Hair

December 22, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Jill Uchiyama When my brother and I were little we used to laugh at my mother’s hair. She wore it teased really high, like a lot of women in …

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Short Story: A Flood Of Tears

December 22, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Daniel Kakuru I am seated on my bed, the weight of my big head supported on my left palm. The index finger of my right hand is at work, …

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Tim Berners-Lee and the invention of the Internet

December 22, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer In 1989, while at CERN (a European research organization that operates the largest particle physics laboratory in the world), Tim Berners-Lee invented the World Wide Web. The …

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DNB Classics

Story of Britain’s first gay Muslim marriage

December 21, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Dr Ransome While many practicing Muslims strongly reject homosexuality, this year Britain celebrated one of its first same-sex Muslim marriages. Jahed Choudhury, 24 – who identifies as both gay …

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General Articles

6 things Nigerians don’t share

December 21, 2017May 6, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Miz Tee Nigerians can be very generous people but there is a limit to what we can share. Here are 6 things that are very hard to get from …

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DNB Classics

The best way for a poor person to become rich

December 21, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Kyros Dartanian The best way to go from poor to rich is to get a job, any job. Purchase only the absolute basics. Do not take vacations, or buy …

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The day I walked out on a job interview

December 21, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Brandon Hunter Have I ever walked out on a job interview before? Yes, and that was at a time in my life when I was quite desperate for a …

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He wore a jersey made of plastic bag and his dream came true

December 20, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Sometime in January 2016, the internet fell in love with a five-year-old boy wearing a homemade Lionel Messi jersey made simply of plastic bag. The boy’s name …

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Don’t pause your life waiting for success – Daniel Nkado

December 19, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Daniel Nkado This is something I’ve had in mind for quite a while, but today, following an argument with a close friend, I finally decided to let it out. …

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New pictures of Naomi Campbell stun fans

December 19, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Miz Tee Naomi Campbell is 47, but after seeing her recent photos for Versace’s upcoming campaign, many don’t believe the English supermodel and actress is anywhere close to 40s! …

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DNB Classics

How people become gay or straight!

December 19, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Adam Young Many times friends, family and colleagues have asked in my presence: How do people become gay? My answer to them is quite simple and straightforward. The truth …

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The most unforgettable day in my life!

December 18, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Rebecca Lemke My son was just four days old. The hospital had kept us for the first two days of his life and sent us home on the morning …

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DNB Classics

The meanest countries on social media

December 18, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Cyberbullying and cyberharassment has become so common, especially among teenagers, that many groups now advise people to stay off the social media if they want to be …

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DNB Classics

Sugary drinks during pregnancy increases asthma risk – Study

December 18, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer There are already plenty of things pregnant women are advised not to take — alcohol, sushi, soft cheese, raw eggs, caffeine, peanuts — but it seems it …

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DNB Classics

Does praying for the sick work?

December 18, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Angelos Sofocleous Even though some religions claim that praying for somebody who is sick can have positive effects on their health, no scientific study has ever had this conclusion. …

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DNB Classics

13 most controversial Nigerians of 2017

December 17, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer From sudden arrests to shocking revelations and addiction to building statues, these 10 Nigerians rocked 2017 back and forth with bursts of controversy: 13. The Okoye Brothers …

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DNB Classics

Moving from wealth to poverty – My Story

December 17, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Cammi Pham This is the story of my life. I was born into old money, grew up with the new money, and now have no money. The line above …

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13 good movies to wrap up 2017 with!

December 16, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Miz Tee 13 good movies to end 2017 with: 1. Leatherface A violent teen and three others kidnap a young nurse while escaping from a Texas mental institution. Pursued …

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The man whose courage shocked the world!

December 16, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Kevin Luo Vanderlei Cordeiro de Lima is a former long-distance runner who specialised in marathons. Vanderlei de Lima was the leading runner in the 2004 Summer Olympics marathon. At …

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How a white woman scammed her Nigerian scammer

December 15, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Mae Auditore Back in 2008 there was this guy that sent me an email, one of those Nigerian scams. He asked me to send him money via Western Union. …

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DNB Classics

Regina Hall is 47 but many don’t believe.

December 15, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer American actress Regina Hall just turned 47, but fans don’t seem to believe. “Do you mean 27?” someone commented on Twitter. “She looks better than me at …

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35 reasons why you shouldn’t have a baby

December 15, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer So you recently saw that cute smiling baby with her cute dimples cradled by her equally smiling mother on Facebook and go like: “OMG, I want one!” …

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Cutest photobomb ever!

December 15, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Ever seen a photobomb look this cute once?

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DNB Classics

Who started the Christmas chicken tradition in Nigeria?

December 15, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Daniel Nkado While I don’t know what a Christmas must-eat in other places is, in Nigeria it is definitely chicken! Go visiting any Nigerian home on Christmas day and …

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7 DNB Stories that will definitely make you CRY!

December 14, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Gloria Ezeh Since its launch in 2014, no other blog has served nearly as much variety as DNB Stories has done in the last 3 years. And the great …

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Omarosa Newman: Her life, salary and resignation

December 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Omarosa Manigault Newman, the most prominent African-American face in Donald Trump’s White House has resigned, the White House confirmed on Wednesday. Press secretary Sarah Huckabee Sanders said …

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The day my 10-month-old son scared the crap out of me!

December 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Chelsie Smallman My son was about 10 months old and my friend had come down from a few miles away to have a movie night with me. I took …

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Mum’s favorite child is the first-born, researchers say

December 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer It’s long been suspected by fighting siblings that parents favor youngest. But researchers say it’s the first-born who feel they get preferential treatment the most. In one …

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DNB Classics

Who is Keaton Jones and why is everyone talking about him?

December 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer 11-year-old Keaton Jones, from Knoxville, Tennessee captured the attention and hearts of Americans after his mother filmed a heartbreaking plea in which Keaton asks why he is …

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When the pregnancy test comes back NEGATIVE

December 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Only an unmarried, Lagos-based slay queen will understand: *** Video Credit: @hakeem_lawal For more awesome videos, don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE to DNB Stories Channel.

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The Shocking Sperm Story

December 13, 2017May 6, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Perhaps you have not heard: A frightening new study has revealed that sperm counts in men in certain countries have dropped by more than 50 percent in …

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DNB Classics

Why black men love dating white women

December 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 12 Comments.

by Staff writer First of all, know that all opinions expressed in this post are all personal and are not in any way deduced from any organized research or academic …

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DNB Classics

21 surprising facts you don’t know

December 12, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Here are 21 surprising facts you probably don’t know: 1. Elephants are the only animals that can’t jump. 2. It is physically impossible for pigs to look …

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DNB Classics

They escaped Boko Haram, only to be raped by Nigerian soldiers

December 10, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Thousands of women and girls have endured all sorts of sexual violence from Africa’s leading terrorist group, Boko Haram. But a recent New York Times report has …

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Why you need to stop trying so hard to be liked

December 10, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Sim Campbell You ever heard that saying: “Nice guys finish last”? Well, the rumors are true. I have an interesting story about this. I had a friend that had …

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DNB Classics

The 5 stages of grief: All you need to know

December 10, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Introduced by Swiss psychiatrist Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, the five stages of grief [also known as the Kübler-Ross model] lists a series of emotions experienced by people going through …

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DNB Classics

Video of man bathing his pet crocodile shocks the internet

December 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Man bathing his pet crocodile: *** For more videos, SUBSCRIBE to DNB Stories Channel.

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DNB Classics

If there are no gays…

December 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Dr Ransome Despite two recent surveys concluding that society has become more accepting of gays, homophobia is still a big problem all over the world. All around the globe, …

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DNB Classics

8 of the world’s strangest discoveries

December 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer The world remains a mystery to many of us. From vampires to UFOs, ancient scripture and mass grave sites, these unexplained discoveries have stumped scientists and captured …

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‘Please don’t shave your pubic hair before going into the delivery room’ – Doctor

December 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 5 Comments.

by Staff writer During a question and answer session, a pregnant woman wanted to know if she really does need to shave her pubic hair before going into the delivery …

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DNB Classics

Love and Other Things that Follow – 5 and 6

December 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

FIVE Read previous chapters HERE: *** At work that morning, Christian was not himself. He was restless and his fingers trembled when he wanted to write. When he typed, he …

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Australia legalizes same-sex marriage amid joy and tears

December 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Australia’s Parliament has voted to legalize same-sex marriage on Thursday after many years of fierce public debate. Cheers and applause broke out as lawmakers voted in favor …

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Anonymous Saudi man and his charity street refrigerator

December 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer A man living in the city of Hail, Saudi Arabia, came up with a brilliant idea to feed needy people in his neighborhood while sparing them the …

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DNB Classics

When you fight with your makeup artist

December 6, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Miz Tee Between UNI-Ibadan slay queen and a makeup artist: Slay Queen: Madam, how much do you charge for makeup? Makeup Artist: Just 10K Slay Queen: 10 what? Is …

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