African and Black Queer Experience and Public Education
by Staff writer A minister for suicide prevention has been appointed in England by the prime minister as the government hosts the first ever global mental health summit. Theresa May …
UK appoints a minister for suicide prevention Read More
by Staff writer Newly crowned Miss Ukraine Veronika Didusenko has been stripped of her title for lying about her personal life on her application. The 23-year-old, who was commemorating her …
Newly crowned Miss Ukraine stripped of her crown for lying Read More
by Staff writer Ekuke is a name used to refer to a group of local dog breeds found in Nigeria and other parts of Africa. Because of their striking features, …
All about the Nigerian local dog breeds called Ekuke or Bingo Read More
by Staff writer According to a new data from the Office for National Statistics, 1.36 million people are currently unemployed in the UK. But the agency says this figure is …
1.36 million people in the UK do not have jobs Read More
by Miz Tee DNB ladies get in here! Two African men serving some real hot sauce ??? … who you picking? Ebuka or Jidenna? 1. Ebuka 2. Jidenna Who is …
Ebuka or Jidenna – Who is HOTTER? Read More
by Staff writer A Nigerian student studying in the UK took her own life in Cardiff hotel room just days after a visit home for Mother’s Day. Omojola Ogundipe, 20, …
Nigerian student kills herself in her hotel room in the UK Read More
by Staff writer With most flagship devices selling way above your income, buying UK-used phones may just be your only option of touching that shiny new wonder from your favourite …
Top facts about buying UK-used phones in Nigeria Read More
by Staff writer A British man has caught the world’s “most dangerous” type of gonorrhea. Though the man had a regular partner in the UK, he contracted the super-infection after …
UK man contracts the “most dangerous” type of gonorrhea in the world Read More
by Staff writer “Someone like You” is a song by British singer Adele. It was written by Adele and Dan Wilson for her second studio album, 21. It is the …
Adele’s “Someone like You” is second most downloaded UK song Read More
by Staff writer According to UK government’s advice on foreign travel for the year 2018, UK citizens are warned not to visit the following places in Nigeria: 1. Borno State …
6 places in Nigeria UK citizens are advised not to travel to in 2018 Read More
by Staff writer Weeks ago, Nigerians went crazy with excitement when it was hinted that Funke Akindele has starred in upcoming Marvel’s Infinity War as a resident of the fictional …
Sope Aluko, the real Nigerian actress in Marvel’s Black Panther Read More
by Staff writer A record number of people came out as gay, lesbian or bisexual last year, with the figure hitting one million for the first time on record, new …
One in 20 people in UK say they are lesbian, gay or bisexual Read More
Nigerians in the UK have joined in the #OneVoiceNigeria protest. A group of Nigerians were spotted at the Nigeria High Commission in the UK, demanding for a 5-minute speech from …
Nigerians in the UK join protest, demand to speak with Buhari Read More
Just a few days after the United States under the administration of Donald Trump put a ban on immigrants from seven Muslim-majority countries, the United Kingdom has also deported 83 …
UK deports 83 Nigerians back to Lagos Read More
Black gay spaces—on dating apps, in nightlife, in friendship circles, and across diaspora community networks—are often imagined as places of refuge. Yet the places we expect to be sanctuaries can …
Why Some Black Gay Spaces Feel Unsafe—How to Rebuild Trust Read More
It’s Not “Toxic”—It’s Survival. When people talk about internal hierarchies among Black gay and bisexual men, they are usually describing the informal ranking systems that dominate dating apps, friendship circles, …
Why Internal Hierarchies Are So Common Among Black Gay Men Read More
A reader recently shared: “I’m with someone I truly love. We’re deeply attracted to each other and have amazing sex. I want this to last—not in the short-term sense people …
Black Gay Men: After Love, Sex, and Attraction, What Next? Read More
Documenting African and Black queer experience across Nigeria and the diaspora Overview I am a Nigerian writer, social commentator, and community researcher based in London. For over a decade, I …
About Daniel Nkado Read More
Dating as a Black gay man in London can feel like navigating a maze of contradictory expectations. From the apps that reduce men to bodies and labels, and conversations where …
Black Gay Men in London: Forget Sexiness & Top/Bottom — Seek This First Read More
The Rise of Ancestral African Worship Among Gay Men Across the African diaspora, a spiritual migration is taking place. Many Black queer men are moving away from religious spaces that …
Ancestral Work: A Hoodoo and Ifá Guide for Black Gay Men Read More
Black Gay Couples and the ‘Wait Time’ Myth For many Black gay couples considering adoption, one fear looms larger than the rest: “We’ll never be chosen.” This belief circulates globally—across …
Black Gay Couples and Adoption: Eligibility and Wait Times Read More
The Rise of Online Homophobia in West Africa A queer Nigerian man in London posts a Pride video of himself and his new partner on Instagram. He’s shirtless, smiling, singing …
Gay Migration: How Diaspora Visibility Can Endanger Locals Read More
Marriage is built on assumptions of honesty and shared reality. When a woman discovers that key truths were withheld, it can shatter that reality and cause lasting harm. Wives are …
Gay Men Marrying Women: The Risks of Not Telling Her Read More
Introduction—Rethinking the Western Closet Paradigm Western culture often portrays “coming out of the closet” as a transformative experience for gay men—a narrative promoted by the media, popular culture, and mainstream …
Why Black Gay Men Don’t Have to ‘Come Out’ Like Other Races Read More
As Black gay men, we navigate a world layered with intersecting oppressions—racism from broader society and homophobia within our own racial communities. Knowing this, one would think that any gathering …
How Black Gay Men Promote Stigma That Comes Back To Hurt Us Read More
The familiar holiday image of matching pyjamas, big family dinners, and joyful gatherings can be comforting, but it doesn’t reflect everyone’s reality. Many people navigate complicated family dynamics, long distances, …
For Gay Men Spending The Holidays Away From Biological Family Read More
Medical Disclaimer: This guide provides general harm‑reduction information, not medical advice. For personalised care—particularly if you have an ongoing health condition—please consult a clinician experienced in LGBTQ+ health. Quick Answer: …
Best Foods for Recovery After Chemsex — A Gay Man’s Guide Read More
The Igbo people of southeastern Nigeria share a rich culture centred on philosophy, spirituality, and communal values. Our fundamental way of seeing and interpreting the world rests heavily on three …
Keeping One’s Hand Straight in Igbo Culture: Integrity, Ikenga & Trust Read More
In gay culture, “top,” “bottom,” and “vers” were never meant to be social identities or personality types. They were supposed to be simple communication tools — a quick way to …
The Power of Screaming ‘I’m a Power Bottom Lesbian’ as a Black Gay Man Read More
By Daniel Nkado. On apps like Grindr, Scruff, or Jack’d, many Black gay and bisexual men notice a distinct pattern: their inboxes fill up faster than those of their peers, …
The ‘BBC’ Fetish and Black Gay Men: How Desire Can Dehumanise Read More
By Daniel Nkado for dnbstories.com. Trigger note: This article discusses sexual rejection and stigma. If any section feels distressing, consider pausing and reaching out to a trusted person or professional …
How to Handle Sexual Rejection as a Gay Man: A Practical Framework Read More
By Daniel Nkado. For many Black gay men, internalised shame arrives quietly—through a barber’s sidelong glance, a preacher’s pause, or the sudden hush at family gatherings—when you walk into a …
Overcoming Internalised Shame as a Black Gay Man—A Research-Backed Guide Read More
By Daniel Nkado. Finding a long-term romantic partner presents difficulties for most people today. However, for gay and bisexual men, these challenges are compounded by barriers that extend beyond the …
Why gay dating feels impossible today: 6 science-backed reasons Read More
By Daniel Nkado. For many gay and bisexual men, the desire for receptive anal sex (bottoming) is thwarted by physical pain, panic, tightening or an inability to “relax.” Pelvic pain …
Pelvic Armouring—How it Makes Bottoming Harder for Gay & Bi men Read More
Love from the DNB family. For every member of the Black and African queer community—whether you’re in Lagos, Nairobi, Accra, Johannesburg, London, New York, Texas, or anywhere in the world—creativity …
Finding Joy and Healing Through Art—A Love Letter to Black Queer People Read More
One commonly searched question that has continued to shock data experts is: “Is my husband gay?” The phenomenon is significant because it reveals how anonymity allows people to voice high-stakes …
Is my husband gay? Why millions of women still search this online Read More
by Gloria Ezeh Bottom-shaming is a set of words, jokes, profiles, and behaviours that demean receptive anal sex and the men who enjoy it. It shows up everywhere: in hookups …
How bottom‑shaming affects us all: Real-life examples and ways to end it Read More
By Daniel Nkado. “DL” stands for “down-low,” a term describing men—often Black or Latino men—who publicly present as straight but privately engage in same-sex relationships. Originating as an African-American slang …
DL Posing: How some gay men monetise down‑low identity for gain Read More
By Daniel Nkado. Gay men and the concept of defensive masculinity Many gay men learn early in life through teasing and societal pressure that being “feminine” invites shame. So they …
Masc4Masc: Why many gay men worship ‘macho’ men 💪🏾 Read More
The pleasure in bottoming does not come from endurance. It comes from control and relaxation. The “Control + Relax” technique is a smart body and mind approach that uses muscle …
Control-Relax Tip: A guide to pain-free bottoming for all men Read More
Who is Peller? Peller is a Nigerian TikTok star, live streamer, and content creator. He is best known for his comic content filled with grammatical blunders and his relationship with …
All about Peller and Jarvis’ relationship, marriage, kids, net worth Read More
Nigerian celebrity weddings in 2025 were nothing short of spectacular. From breathtaking decor to A-list guest appearances, this year gave fans some of the most talked-about love stories in Nigerian …
Best Nigerian Celebrity Weddings of 2025 – Ranked Read More
Every small business owner knows this feeling: your apartment is slowly turning into a warehouse, with boxes on the couch, on the kitchen table, and even on the hallway floor. …
Startup on the Couch vs. Professional Warehouse: When It’s Time to Delegate Logistics Read More
Who is Okopi Peterson? Okopi Peterson is a Nigerian gospel singer, songwriter, and music minister. He is popularly known for his spirit-filled worship songs that have blessed the Nigerian gospel …
All about Okopi Peterson and Prudent Gabriel’s Marriage, Wedding, Kids Read More
If you’ve been searching for the full list of Nigerian celebrities who welcomed babies in 2025, you’re in the right place. The year 2025 has truly been a baby boom …
Full list of Nigerian celebrities who welcomed babies in 2025 Read More
Who is William Benson? William Benson is a Nigerian actor, film director, and chef. He is best known for his roles in movies and TV shows such as “Ajoche,” “Obara’M,” …
Nigerian Actor William Benson Biography: Age, Marriage, Wife, Kids Read More
Who is Kemi Badenoch? Kemi Badenoch is a British politician of Nigerian origin. Since November 2024, she has served as the UK’s Leader of the Opposition and Leader of the …
All about Kemi Badenoch’s Marriage, Husband and Kids Read More
Who is Ibrahim Traoré? Ibrahim Traoré is a Burkinabé soldier and politician. He is currently serving as the interim President of Burkina Faso after ousting the former interim President, Lieutenant …
Ibrahim Traoré Biography: Age, Marriage, Wife and Kids Read More
New London, 3020 In the neon-drenched sprawl of New London, 3020, the air hummed with the electric buzz of hovercars and the synthetic laughter of holograms. The city was a …
Gay Fiction: The Last Top in 3020 Read More
Who is Mo Abudu? Mo Abudu is a Nigerian filmmaker, media personality, and philanthropist. She is best known as the CEO of EbonyLife Studios, one of Africa’s leading entertainment companies. …
All about Mo Abudu’s Marriage, Husband and Kids Read More
Who is Veekee James? Veekee James is a Nigerian fashion designer, social media influencer, and gospel singer. She is best known for her luxury fashion brand, Veekee James, which has …
Veekee James Biography: Age, Parents, Marriage, Husband, Kids Read More
The Headies Awards, originally known as the Hip Hop World Awards, is one of Nigeria’s most prestigious music award ceremonies. Since its inception in 2006, the Next Rated category has …
All the Headies Next Rated Award Winners – Ranked Read More
“Na mumu dey go boutique. If you package okrika well, nobody go know. [Only a fool goes to the boutique. If you style thrift clothing well, nobody will know it’s …
How to style thrift clothing (Okrika) and still slay Read More
There’s a popular Nigerian saying that Okpa and Coke have been saving lives since 1900. But why stick to the usual, old combo when you can spice things up? Be …
7 Nigerian street food combinations you should try Read More
Who is Ben Francis? Ben Francis is a British entrepreneur and the CEO of Gymshark, a fitness clothing and accessories company. He co-founded Gymshark with his school friend Lewis Morgan …
All about Ben Francis’ marriage, wife, kids, girlfriend Read More
by Daniel Nkado Nigerians are mostly not known to be very flexible when it comes to trying new cuisine. This lack of interest may even be more pronounced in Igbos, …
Why some Igbo people are slow to try new foods Read More
Who are the Zabron Singers? Zabron Singers is a famous gospel music group from Tanzania. They are popularly known for their hit songs like “Mkono Wa Bwana” and “Sweetie Sweetie,” …
Zabron Singers – Members, Country, Genre, Songs, Conflict Read More
Who is Aaron Cobham? Aaron Cobham is a British actor and voice-over artist. He is popularly known for his roles in films such as “Cold Feet,” “Coronation Street,” and “The …
Life and Biography of Actor Aaron Cobham – Family, Marriage, Sexuality, Partner Read More
Who is Justin Baldoni? Justin Baldoni is an American actor, director and filmmaker. He is popularly known for his role as Rafael Solano in the telenovela “Jane the Virgin.” Baldoni …
All about Justin Baldoni’s marriage, wife and children Read More
Who is Maurice Sam? Maurice Sam is a Nigerian actor, DJ, entrepreneur, and film producer. He is popularly known for his work in films like “Teni’s Big Day,” “The Big …
Maurice Sam Biography: Age, Career, Marriage, Wife and Kids Read More