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A tradition in Tanzania allows women to marry fellow women

May 22, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 6 Comments.

by Gloria Ezeh Tanzania, the largest country in East Africa, includes the spice islands of Zanzibar, Pemba, and Mafia and contains Africa’s tallest mountain— the Kilimanjaro! In a remote village …

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The Truth and Untruth about Igbo and Yoruba Rivalry

May 20, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Odumorun I almost always find the common rivalry between the Igbos and Yorubas quite amusing, if occasionally trying. Tribalism is not caused by the presence of tribes. It is …

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The time lions rescued a kidnapped African girl

May 18, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Abductions, which lead to marriage, are rife in rural parts of Ethiopia. In early June, 2005, a 12-year-old girl was kidnapped by four men on her way …

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My Sad First Love

May 16, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Matt I was with this girl for almost 4 years. I met her when I was 18 and she was 16. I fell in love with her. After about …

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“A Secret That I Have Never Told Anyone”

May 9, 2017May 1, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Miss Anonymous I am Indian. Once, I saw my mom almost have sex with another man when I was really young. She doesn’t know that I saw her. They …

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“The Wodaabe’s wife stealing dance”

May 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer The Wodaabe are a small subgroup of the Fulani ethnic group. They are traditionally nomadic cattle-herders and traders in the Sahel. Known for their elaborate attire and …

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The gay king who ruled in Africa before the British invasion

May 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer A commonly cited reason for maintaining, or expanding, criminalisation of homosexuality in Africa is that it is “un-African” or, in other words, a foreign phenomenon. But do you …

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“How I found out my wife was cheating”

May 6, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Phil Samson I found out about my wife’s cheating in the most unusual way. One night my wife came home from being with friends at the school where she …

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‘I was left to die on an island for getting pregnant’

April 28, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Unmarried girls who got pregnant used to be seen as bringing shame to their families in parts of Uganda, so they were taken to a tiny island …

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Married couple struggling to conceive discover they are biological twins

April 15, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer A married couple discovered they are twins when they went to a fertility clinic to find out why they have not been able to have children. Their …

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The Lost Moon Piece – 4

April 14, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

FOUR Rita pushed the door gently. ‘Please come in,’ she said. Ejike stepped into the room. ‘You didn’t lock your door?’ ‘Couldn’t have—ran out in a hurry.’ Ejike looked round …

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“Depression is a taboo in Africa”

April 10, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

 by DNB staff writer Mental illness is a taboo subject that attracts stigma in much of Africa. A study conducted in Uganda revealed that the term ‘depression’ is not culturally …

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The love story that shocked the world

April 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Staff writer When an African prince and a white middle-class clerk from Lloyd’s underwriters got married in 1948, it provoked shock both in Britain and Africa. Their romance caused …

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What being 30 feels like…

April 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Your 30s can feel sort of bittersweet. Just as you’re coming more into your own and feeling stronger in your identity, your body begins to show some …

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Top 12 animals that engage in homosexual behaviour

April 2, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Staff writer   If you already didn’t know, homosexual behavior is a nearly universal phenomenon in the animal kingdom. Homosexuality has been found in 1,500 species of animals through …

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The Lost Moon Piece – 3

March 29, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

THREE Uzoma’s eyes darted round the compound. In a matter of seconds and she had seen what she sought— igbeguru! The cut end of a palm frond with its long …

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The Lost Moon Piece – 2

March 11, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

TWO ‘Ozukwalu, hope it is enough for you?’ Chinelo said. ‘Mama, yes,’ Amaka said. She leaned forward to wash her hands in the brown plastic bowl on the table. The …

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Women should be treated as though they have a “penis” – Chimamanda Adichie

March 8, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

Award-winning Nigerian writer, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, wants women to be treated as though they have a “penis.” Adichie stated that her aim for the feminism crusade was to ensure that …

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“The Most Tragic Event In My Life”

January 31, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

Three people share their stories. You can share yours too…   *** 1. “The Most Tragic Event In My Life” by Tonya Easter I was raped by mother’s crack dealer …

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Husband tried to kill his wife by poisoning her toothpaste

January 29, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

Squeezing toothpaste onto the bristles of her toothbrush, Staci Wortman started cleaning her teeth. It was part of her daily routine, but something felt different. The toothpaste caused a burning …

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Why did my sons disown me?

January 28, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Nida Blundell I am a retired 70 years old woman. I have two grown-up sons; one is 48 and the other 43. Both have disowned me within the last …

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“My wife charges me N500 for sex” — Nigerian man tells court

January 25, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer Mr Sunday Olaosebikan on Wednesday approached an Igando Customary Court in Lagos to end his seven-year-old marriage to his wife, Mutiatu, for allegedly demanding for money before …

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Roommates 5: Episode 4

January 24, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 6 Comments.

Spirit of the Dead – 1 Dr Titi came by to see Gloria. Both women had been colleagues sometime in the past, before Titi resigned from her job and went …

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6 problems with Africa

January 19, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Chijioke N. Abanya I’m an African, a Nigerian to be precise. On a first glance, Africa should have it all. From a teeming supply of natural resources to a …

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Roommates 5: Episode 3

January 13, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 13 Comments.

The Confrontation All through the night, Georgina remained awake, planning. Mr Iyke has gone to work in the morning leaving her and Gloria alone in the house when the confrontation …

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Ways religion does more harm than good

January 7, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Valerie Tarico Surprisingly, even among those who describe themselves as “very religious” 20 percent say that religion is harmful to society. For that we can probably thank the internet, …

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A few things Nigeria could teach the West

January 4, 2017March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Tyler Cowen   A trip is often defined by its surprises, so here are my biggest revelations from six days in Lagos, Nigeria. Most of all, I found Lagos …

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“I am a house-husband and loving it”

December 19, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 7 Comments.

by Mr Anonymous I was in a normal marriage for over 10 years until the company I worked for went bankrupt and closed down. I was never overly aggressive and …

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5 ways feminism has made women miserable

November 29, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Andrea Tantaros I’m going to go ahead and say something no conservative ever dare says: feminism has been awesome. First, imagine not having the same rights as men. Imagine …

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Sad story of the ‘Hilton Sisters’

November 23, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 5 Comments.

by Staff writer Daisy and Violet were conjoined twins born in Brighton, England on February 5, 1908. The sisters were born pygopagi — i.e. conjoined twins in which the two …

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Malawi ‘sexual cleanser’ jailed!

November 23, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer An HIV-positive Malawian man has been sentenced to 24 months in jail with hard labour for having unprotected sex with newly bereaved widows. The practice of “widow …

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Real reasons young people don’t want kids

November 17, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Isabelle Kohn When faced with the question, “Do you want kids?” many millennials are shrugging and lackadaisically saying “NOPE.” “NOPE NOPE NOPE.” After all, long gone are the days …

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Officials are raping women and girls in IDP camps

October 31, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

Government officials and other authorities in Nigeria have raped and sexually exploited women and girls displaced by the conflict with Boko Haram. The government is not doing enough to protect …

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Unbelievable! Full story of The Girl In The Window

October 25, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 8 Comments.

The family had lived in the rundown rental house for almost three years when someone first saw a child’s face in the window. A little girl, pale, with dark eyes, …

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Warning To All Women!!!

October 24, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 5 Comments.

by Amala Read below… Babes, when you are cooking for your in-laws, especially for the first time, there is always one voice that keeps telling you to: “Add more salt!” …

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What women have and men can’t have and vice versa???

October 24, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Pubali Mazumder To all the WOMEN out there: You have a dark complexion, there is foundation. You are skinny, implants are there. Your eyebrows are shapeless, you can shape …

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Daniel Nkado: We Should NOT All Be Feminists

October 23, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Daniel Nkado The first time I heard the word Feminism, I did not know the meaning. But it felt to me like something I’d be interested in. And then …

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Quarter of a Blue Moon – 17

October 18, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 6 Comments.

SEVENTEEN ‘Why didn’t you come last night as you said?’ Sammy asked Ejike. ‘I had other things to do.’ ‘What other things?’ ‘How long did you wait?’ Ejike said instead. …

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Desmond Tutu wants right to assisted death

October 7, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Staff writer South Africa’s Archbishop Desmond Tutu has revealed that he wants to have the option of an assisted death. The Nobel Peace Prize laureate and anti-apartheid campaigner said …

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30 reasons why I am lucky to be a woman

September 27, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Sexy Angel 1. From an early age the opposite sex will be instructed never to hit me but I may not be given the same instructions. However, should I …

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Why you must write a will

September 27, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Victoria Bischoff When Stuart Herd’s widowed father, William, remarried at 67, Stuart was delighted. He’d feared his father would live out the rest of his days alone, after the …

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Why There Is No God?

September 27, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Sam Harris Somewhere in the world a man has abducted a little girl. Soon he will rape, torture, and kill her. If an atrocity of this kind not occurring …

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The Women Who Love Boko Haram

September 22, 2016May 6, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Chika Oduah A few dozen women sit on mats in the shadow of a neem tree. Their giggles rise with the hot dusty air as they sketch elaborate designs …

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The Female Privilege Checklist

September 16, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Karen Straughan If you truly disagree with the fact that women are more privileged than men, please give substantial reasoning… 1) People are likely to assume I am a …

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Quarter of a Blue Moon – 15

September 7, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 9 Comments.

FIFTEEN The evening was dim with the sign of rain. The distance to the big store where kerosene was sold at a good price was a long one. With James …

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Bridal Slavery in India!

August 17, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Staff writer India has one of the world’s fastest growing economies. But the southwest Asian country also has the largest number of slaves in the world. In the midst …

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One Story Feminists Would not Like!

August 16, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 6 Comments.

  Marina da Glória wrote: I’m not married, I never dated and I’m still virgin at 28 years old. I don’t like it at all–when I see all my friends …

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5 Shocking Stories of Incest throughout History

July 31, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 6 Comments.

by Briana Jones Taboos are rarely black and white. While one person or group may consider a certain act socially unacceptable or downright immoral, another may see it simply as …

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Life Story: My 7,000 Pounds!

July 10, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 6 Comments.

by Diane It was some days to her passing out of Youth Service that she logged onto her Facebook account. She saw a friend request and as usual accepted it …

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Quarter of a Blue Moon – 8

July 8, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 20 Comments.

EIGHT Chinelo had a dream about her son. A very terrible nightmare. It was only some minutes past 6 in the morning that she knocked on Onyemaechi’s short and red …

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Quarter of a Blue Moon – 7

June 28, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 6 Comments.

SEVEN He stopped talking when he realized the person he was talking to wasn’t actually listening. Quietly, he took her hand and gave it back to her. He began to …

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Roommates 4: Episode 6

June 26, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 8 Comments.

The Meeting –2 He threw away his cigarette, stepped on it with his shoe and made his way towards her. Now in her front, he slotted both hands into the …

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Quarter of a Blue Moon – 6

June 18, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 5 Comments.

SIX Mrs Rita Onalli is not particularly a bad woman. She went to church every Sunday, sometimes on big Wednesdays too, helped the poor and never shouted at an employee. …

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Quarter of a Blue Moon – 5

June 1, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 11 Comments.

FIVE ‘What is that?’ Amaka whispered. ‘What do you think it is?’ Without so much as another look at the object Phillip held out, Amaka tied her wrapper back, firmly …

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Musings: Why are People so Desperate to Have Babies?

January 8, 2016March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 7 Comments.

by Prosper Articles like this posted on DNB Stories represent only the views of the writer and not the opinion of DNB Stories. *** I was inspired to write this …

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Life Story: My Life, My Pain

December 20, 2015March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 24 Comments.

Anonymous My name is Samson [not real name] and this is my story. Sometime in 2010, the same year I finished Youth Service, I met a girl that I really …

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Entangled – 6

December 7, 2015March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 21 Comments.

SIX Madam Angela Ujunwa Ilonna is a peculiar woman. Over the years, she’s seen more changes in her person and personality than anyone could ever boast of. Many years ago, …

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Flash Story: The Talking Tree

November 20, 2015March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 13 Comments.

by Carl Uke Umuato village has a huge achi tree located at the centre of the village square. The tree talks at midnight. Every Umuato native is aware of this …

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Short Story: A Very Hot Adventure

November 3, 2015March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 17 Comments.

by Daniel Nkado I have always wanted my husband and me to try something new in bed. Over the years our sex life has grown boring. Very boring. Most times …

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Short Story: The Untypical Nigerian Husband

October 20, 2015March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 12 Comments.

by Talius Dike Ebuka and Nneka have been married for 3 years now. Though to them, it seemed like 33 years. It is obvious that love has finally been lost …

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