Why Black Gay Men Don’t Have to ‘Come Out’ Like Other Races

Introduction—Rethinking the Western Closet Paradigm Western culture often portrays “coming out of the closet” as a transformative experience for gay men—a narrative promoted by the media, popular culture, and mainstream …

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For Gay Men Spending The Holidays Away From Biological Family

The familiar holiday image of matching pyjamas, big family dinners, and joyful gatherings can be comforting, but it doesn’t reflect everyone’s reality. Many people navigate complicated family dynamics, long distances, …

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How Internalised Stigma Fuels Erectile Issues in Black Gay Men

⚠️ Content Note: This article addresses erectile dysfunction, stigma, and mental health in gay men. Sensitive themes are discussed—please proceed with care. Erectile dysfunction (ED)—difficulty getting or keeping an erection …

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19 Unflattering Behaviours Seen in Black Queer Spaces—with Examples

By Victor Umeh & Daniel Nkado. Content warning: This article discusses interpersonal harm in Black queer spaces, including manipulation, femophobia, HIV stigma, and related dynamics. Some readers may find this …

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How to Handle Sexual Rejection as a Gay Man: A Practical Framework

By Daniel Nkado for dnbstories.com. Trigger note: This article discusses sexual rejection and stigma. If any section feels distressing, consider pausing and reaching out to a trusted person or professional …

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Top vs. Bottom: 8 Ways Rigid Roles Hurt Gay & Bi Men—Why Fluidity Matters

By Daniel Nkado. In queer dating and relationships, labels like top and bottom help people communicate what they enjoy. But when these terms solidify into permanent identities—dictating what someone “should” …

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Why gay dating feels impossible today: 6 science-backed reasons

By Daniel Nkado. Finding a long-term romantic partner presents difficulties for most people today. However, for gay and bisexual men, these challenges are compounded by barriers that extend beyond the …

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How bottom‑shaming affects us all: Real-life examples and ways to end it

by Gloria Ezeh Bottom-shaming is a set of words, jokes, profiles, and behaviours that demean receptive anal sex and the men who enjoy it. It shows up everywhere: in hookups …

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Arise TV’s Somtochukwu ‘Sommie’ Maduagwu Bio: Marriage, Husband, Kids, Cause of Death

Who is Somtochukwu Maduagwu? Somtochukwu “Sommie” Maduagwu was an Arise TV news anchor, lawyer and former beauty queen. She rose to fame in 2023 after representing Nigeria at the Miss …

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