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Art and Literature

‘Between Two Elephants at War’ – A touching African flash fiction about violence

July 15, 2020July 15, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

Written by Timi Sanni In my tribe, there’s a proverb about the grass and two elephants. I don’t remember it now, but I remember the sound father’s hand made on …

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Media and Entertainment

SMASH – The best Nollywood romance-comedy movie so far made

July 12, 2020July 12, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

Written by Dozie Fineboi Ejimofor, for DNB Stories. The 2018 Nigerian film ‘SMASH’ is, in my opinion, largely underrated for a class act romantic comedy it is. It so far …

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Media and Entertainment

Fresh details emerge about dead couple – Chris Ndukwe and Olamide Alli

June 29, 2020June 29, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

The disturbing news of a man who allegedly stabbed his girlfriend in Lekki and committed suicide afterwards came as a huge shock to Nigerians last week. 39-year-old Chris Ndukwe allegedly …

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Media and Entertainment

Nigerian man comes out as gay on Instagram, shares video with lover

June 11, 2020June 11, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

A Nigerian man identified simply as Ayomide or Ayo Chef has taken to his Instagram page to reveal that he is gay. Ayomide also shared a video of himself cuddling …

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Media and Entertainment

Fresh details of Hushpuppi’s alleged arrest in Dubai

June 10, 2020June 10, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

Reports currently making the rounds on social media is that Nigerian socialite Hushpuppi has been arrested in Dubai. What we have been able to gather so far of Hushpuppi’s alleged …

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Media and Entertainment

Naira Marley celebrates Billboard chart success

June 5, 2020June 5, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

Nigerian musician Azeez Fashola, professionally known as Naira Marley, has taken to his official Instagram page celebrate a Billboard chart success. The 26-year-old singer shared a screenshot of the Billboard …

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General Articles

I grew up in Awka – here’s what the town is like

May 9, 2020February 13, 2022 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

Awka is currently the capital city of Anambra State. All major government parastatal offices are located in Awka. We lived in Amikwo for a while, a small street off Works …

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General Articles

The animal called ‘edi’ in Igbo land

April 29, 2020May 17, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

In Awka, the capital city of Anambra State, where I grew up, there weren’t many bushes. We rarely saw young boys in groups of 10 or 12, carrying machetes and …

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True Life

How a male priest assaulted me when I was a student

April 20, 2020November 13, 2025 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

Tobe shared this story. Five years ago, I was a third-year university student. Coming from a very religious home, I was deeply involved in church activities while at school. I …

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True Life

A SAD story about a GAY man dying from AIDS

April 15, 2020December 12, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

Written by Rodney Norman This short story (titled “I Hadn’t Anyone Until You”) is loosely based on a real-life event. This is a story of the last moments of a …

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General Articles

‘Everything We Touch’ – One of Nollywood’s greatest classics!

April 14, 2020April 14, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

Written by Dozie Fineboi Ejimofor “Everything We Touch” the movie is everything. Late Justus Esiri, first of all, is beyond legend status. The actor outdid himself in this movie. Playing …

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General Articles

6 best creams for dark and chocolate skin in Nigeria

April 7, 2020February 14, 2021 - by Daniel Nkado - 158 Comments.

We already did a post about the top five recommended soaps for dark-skinned Nigerians. By now you must know how much we advocate for natural dark skin. Dark skin is …

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DNB Classics

Angelique Kidjo’s electrifying performance at the 2020 Grammys

January 27, 2020March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer The 62nd Annual Grammy Awards ceremony took place at the Staples Center in Los Angeles on January 26, 2020. The show recognized the best works of music …

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General Articles

If Africa was a school…check out who your country will be

January 13, 2020May 5, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Ever imagined what it would be like if Africa was a school and all the countries are students? Nigerian writer, Soogun Omoniyi, has the best answer to …

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General Articles

10 great Nollywood actors nobody remembers anymore

January 10, 2020May 5, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Nobody stays relevant forever and no other industry establishes the truth of this saying better than the entertainment industry. There were Nollywood actors that dazzled our screens …

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Queer Mental Health

Love Story: The Sexist Man I Fell In Love With

January 3, 2020July 2, 2021 - by Daniel Nkado - 10 Comments.

Written by Daniel Nkado My boyfriend, Okolo, is a proud man. As proud as a Yoruba boy with newly dyed hair. The first day we met, after several weeks of …

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General Articles

How fashionable are Nigerian men?

January 2, 2020April 18, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 5 Comments.

by Staff writer African men have been separated from fashion for a long time. In the past, women bothered more about how they looked than men. Women get all the …

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True Life

My experience visiting Tarkwa Bay Beach in Lagos

December 23, 2019April 18, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Elizabeth Nana Hydrophobia — that’s the term to describe people like me who are scared of water. I’ve always avoided anything beach, but when Ami called again and shouted …

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General Articles

8 most talked about Nigerians this year

December 22, 2019April 18, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Despite a slow start, 2019 turned out to be a really BIG year for news-hungry Nigerians. From celebrity scandals and reality TV drama to massive political controversies, …

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DNB Classics

Exclusive pictures from the REDTV Rave 4 Shutdown party in Lekki

December 10, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer The REDTV Rave party is perhaps this year’s ultimate Detty December event. The show remained true to its theme, ‘The shutdown’, with over 25K guests attending. On …

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What does Detty December mean to you?

December 8, 2019December 24, 2024 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Gloria Ezeh Detty December is all about the shows and concerts and the parties. Detty December is a way to cool off after the stress of the year. No …

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DNB Classics

Ticket prices for Lagos music concerts this December

December 4, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer There is no better city to have a Detty December this year than Lagos City. With all the amazing shows and concerts going down in Lagos this …

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General Articles

10 greatest Nollywood movies ever made!

November 17, 2019May 5, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 5 Comments.

by Staff writer The Nigerian film industry (aka Nollywood) may have become notorious for churning out less-than-impressive movies at an alarming rate, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t Nollywood projects …

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DNB Classics

Video of Wizkid ‘rocking’ Tiwa Savage at One Africa Music Fest gets fans talking

November 16, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Almost all Nigerian artists are currently in Dubai for the 2019 One Africa Music Fest. The concert, which is certainly one of UAE’s top music events, saw …

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True Life

My Own Nigerian Love Story – Told By Simi

November 9, 2019May 28, 2021 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Simi Oluwa, penned by Daniel Nkado My name is Simi. Okay, that’s not my real name. You don’t actually expect me to use my real name to share a …

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General Articles

Raising sons the right way in Africa

November 1, 2019April 25, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Daniel Nkado I grew up in a small street in Anambra State’s capital. I was not up to 8 when I realized boys and girls were raised differently, at …

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DNB Classics

What is the movie the Queen of England appeared in?

October 28, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Ever wondered if the world’s most powerful monarch has ever been in a movie before? Well, yes — The Royal Queen of England, Queen Elizabeth II, has …

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True Life

My Lagos Sugar Mummy Diaries – 2

October 18, 2019April 25, 2021 - by Daniel Nkado - 11 Comments.

Written by Daniel Nkado Read the first part HERE.   ***   Aunty Victoria was surprisingly inexperienced. Being with her felt like being with a virgin. I used to hear …

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General Articles

What being GAY in Nigeria feels like

October 7, 2019October 12, 2024 - by Daniel Nkado - 6 Comments.

by T.J. Bosun One word to describe being gay in Nigeria (any part of Africa really) is UNPLEASANT. The stress and sneers do not just come from society but from …

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DNB Classics

8 most common crimes in Lagos

October 3, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Nigeria’s megacity, Lagos, faces numerous security challenges, ranging from petty to very serious crimes. Though security in the state has been beefed up in recent times, pointers …

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Short Story: How Amaka Disappointed Me

September 8, 2019May 1, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Daniel Nkado Amaka does not joke with her business. This would be her 6th year in the industry and not a single dissatisfied customer yet. She had known a …

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DNB Classics

All the African artists in Beyoncé’s new ‘Lion King’ album

July 16, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer American superstar Beyoncé has released the track list for her Lion King-inspired album, The Lion King: The Gift, and Africans have gone into frenzy. The album, while …

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Media and Entertainment

Dear Gideon Okeke, I used to be more homophobic than you!

April 10, 2019April 14, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Paul B. D For the sake other people mentioned in this write-up, I’m writing this with a fake name. Many years ago, I was this ignorant homophobe who’d sworn …

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DNB Classics

The real reason you get morning woods

February 23, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Ever wondered the exact reason men wake up each morning with their members standing firm and strong inside their boxers? Men of all ages experience morning woods …

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DNB Classics

Grace Abounds – Chapter 8 and 9

February 22, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 5 Comments.

by Daniel Nkado *** Read previous chapters HERE. EIGHT At work, Andrew found himself thinking about the incident with Grace, smiling to his foolishness. Or maybe the way Grace had …

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DNB Classics

Everything wrong with Gillette’s new advert

January 17, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Daniel Nkado There is a good reason companies usually balk from going political. Apparently top maker of shaving supplies, Gillette, does not know this when they decided to make …

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Art and Literature

How I spent my Christmas day in Nigeria

December 26, 2018December 18, 2025 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

A short story by Daniel Nkado Our compound has gone lonely. It is always like this every Christmas, or its Muslim equivalent, when neighbours travel with everything living they own, …

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DNB Classics

Why it is completely OKAY to block someone on social media

December 23, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Ms Mia R. I’ll begin by sharing a small true story with you. It’s been approximately 6 years since I broke up with my first boyfriend (I was 18). …

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Read why this proposal has been tagged the most enthusiastic wedding proposal ever

December 9, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer When her husband knelt down to propose in a quiet bush in the countryside, Lauren Johnson did something most women do when they are being proposed to…only …

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DNB Classics

No, the history of Black Friday is not related to slavery

November 24, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer The history of Black Friday, a day most stores offer very mouth-watering discounts to their customers, has been mired in controversy for a long time. There have …

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Woman reads out fiancé’s cheating text messages on their wedding day

November 18, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer There is a reason people are advised never to cheat! How disoriented a woman named Casey must have felt when she received screenshots of racy text messages …

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True Life

None of my colleagues at work knows that I’m a transgender – Read Montoya’s Story

November 9, 2018April 14, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Demicia Montoya I was born on July 10, 1992, as Demicia Ann Montoya, a healthy baby girl weighing in at 8 pounds, 14 ounces. I can’t pinpoint the exact …

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DNB Classics

Ring-shaming is now becoming a serious issue

November 6, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Daniel Nkado Being fat, short, quiet, or poor, there is now an endless list of what people can be shamed for. And now engagement rings have joined the list. …

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The confusion of being a man

October 29, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 6 Comments.

by Eivind Kjørstad Let’s face it, a lot of boys and men today are confused about what it is to be a man. Imagine navigating dating in a world where …

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People are talking about Roland Griffin’s cute lips

October 28, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer American basketball player Roland Griffin was recently in the news for being dismissed from the men’s basketball team after an altercation with an assistant coach. Griffin was …

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General Articles

3 dark-skinned African models that have redefined beauty

October 21, 2018December 18, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Beauty comes in all skins and nothing better explains this than the presence and extraordinary works of these three African models. 3. Grace Bol Grace Bol is …

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The four Kupe dance challenge guys thank fans!

October 10, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer They are not just cute, they are also humble. The four Kupe dance challenge guys have thanked fans for making their dance video go viral. Find them …

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13 types of people you meet at the gym in Nigeria

September 30, 2018July 14, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 6 Comments.

by James Nelson For those that don’t go to the gym yet, you are really missing the lifestyle gist of your life. The gym is like a busy market of …

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DNB Classics

Short Story: The Holy Matrimony

September 23, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Martins Toritseju She was beaming with joy, her smiles enchanting. The bride’s white gown boasted its radiance. Intoxicating! It was finally happening. It was like a wish come true. …

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DNB Classics

My annoying experience with Nigeria police this morning

September 10, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Gift Adene People have been complaining online about how the Nigerian police and SARS officials often harassed them over nothing just to extort money. Well, I experienced mine today, and …

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How I became addicted to sleeping with married women – My Life’s Story

September 7, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Akhil Sharma I am not sure what caused me to start sleeping with married women, especially ones who were much older than I was. The easy explanation is that …

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General Articles

If I’m Black, then why is my penis not big?

August 29, 2018March 7, 2022 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Bill Johnson II I have a problem with my dick size. It’s not big and I want it to be! I guess it is about average in size, and …

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DNB Classics

I kiss my two sons, and why every father should too!

August 20, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Writing for the Good Men Project, writer and tech geek, Doug Zeigler, says he kisses his two sons every day. “I have two sons that I kiss …

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True Life

“He was the most innocent man I know, but he raped me”

August 17, 2018May 1, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Ujunwa While growing up, I found my uncle surprisingly more caring than even my own parents. I went to him whenever I wanted something that my parents had refused …

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How I was raped by two women at 15

August 16, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Tony Brock It’s absolutely possible for a woman to rape a man, and it happens more often than you’d imagine. Most victims of male rape will choose to say …

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Why “Berger to Ajah” is trending on Nigerian Twitter

June 28, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Miz Tee Berger to Ajah is currently Trending on Twitter with over 40K tweets, and if you’re wondering what could be the reason, here is the full gist: So …

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All about the ‘African Spider-Man’ who saved a child from high building in France!

May 29, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer The country of France has on Monday offered citizenship to an illegal immigrant from Mali who scaled the facade of a Paris apartment block to save a …

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Hilarious Video: Father teaches his daughter how to play golf

May 28, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Zeus Watch video below: Credit: @adamlamb33

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This is the Saddest Short Story ever written!

May 25, 2018March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Daniel Nkado’s My Smiling Baby Boy was voted “Saddest Short Story Ever Written” in 2014 by DNB readers: Read “My Smiling Baby Boy” by Daniel Nkado below: …

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