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Slum life in Lagos State – A pitiable situation

October 13, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Victoria Island, with its high-rise apartments, gleaming streets, and exclusive boutiques, is easily one of the plushest areas of Lagos State. But only a few miles away …

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5 reasons Africans believe JUJU is real

October 12, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Juju refers to the belief in African magic. It is the belief in magical powers brought on by supernatural elements like gods, charms, and deities. Juju belief …

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The night my wife caught me masturbating …

October 11, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Mr. Anonymous When my fiancée decided to move in with me, she had no idea just how often I masturbated. We were both about 23 years in age and …

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General Articles

8 well-paying jobs in Nigeria that don’t require a college degree

October 8, 2019April 24, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Gone are the days having a university degree was seen as the basic requirement for success. With the number of non-graduate millionaires we have in the country …

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How Nigerians can easily travel to and work in Canada

October 7, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer This article is about how Nigerians can easily travel to and work in Canada. Nigerians with adequate work experience and skills can easily immigrate to Canada using …

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General Articles

What being GAY in Nigeria feels like

October 7, 2019October 12, 2024 - by Daniel Nkado - 6 Comments.

by T.J. Bosun One word to describe being gay in Nigeria (any part of Africa really) is UNPLEASANT. The stress and sneers do not just come from society but from …

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General Articles

5 annoying things Nigerians do on their Whatsapp stories

October 4, 2019May 6, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Uchennaya The emergence of social media has simplified communication, sort of. But Nigerians have a tendency of overdoing things, don’t we? Today, more than 1 billion people all over …

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General Articles

Skoochies (or Skuchies) – The new popular party drink in Lagos to stay away from

October 3, 2019April 13, 2021 - by Daniel Nkado - 5 Comments.

by Staff writer What is Skoochies? Skoochies (also spelt skuchies) is a local cocktail of alcohol and weed. Sometimes other herbs are added. Skoochies is becoming increasingly popular in Lagos …

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8 most common crimes in Lagos

October 3, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Nigeria’s megacity, Lagos, faces numerous security challenges, ranging from petty to very serious crimes. Though security in the state has been beefed up in recent times, pointers …

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My experience with a sugar mummy in Lagos

October 2, 2019October 30, 2021 - by Daniel Nkado - 129 Comments.

Written by Daniel Nkado. A sugar mummy is an older woman who dates a younger person that she spends money on. This younger person may be male or female (if the …

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Lagos and other cities at risk of being partially submerged – New report

October 1, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Goldman Sachs has released a terrifying report on the impact of climate change on major cities across the world. In the grim 34-page report, major world cities …

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8 surprising FACTS about Nigeria you’ve never heard of

September 29, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Nigeria is an outstanding country, even though the West African giant is yet to reach its full potential. Despite its multitude of challenges (Nigeria sure has a …

8 surprising FACTS about Nigeria you’ve never heard of Read More
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The cost of getting teeth scaling and polishing done in Nigeria

September 28, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 9 Comments.

by Staff writer Times are changing and more and more Nigerians are taking dental treatments seriously. Not many people are born with perfect and straight white teeth. But the good thing …

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Why Nigeria will NEVER develop

September 27, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer Nigeria is a country riddled with so many problems, but a nation does not prosper because they have no challenges. It is the response to these challenges …

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General Articles

8 annoying things that happen at Nigerian weddings

September 26, 2019May 6, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Daniel Nkado and Mosope Sotade Weddings are a huge thing in Nigeria and it doesn’t matter which tribe is involved. Whether from the North, South, East or West, Nigerians …

8 annoying things that happen at Nigerian weddings Read More
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SHOCKING VIDEO: Little girl throws daddy’s phone into water!

September 23, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer LOL… Oyibo parents sha…I doubt if this can ever happen in Nigeria. #lol WATCH THE VIDEO BELOW:

SHOCKING VIDEO: Little girl throws daddy’s phone into water! Read More
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Stella Damasus and Chika Unigwe argue about Lupita Nyong’o’s role in Americanah

September 22, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer News of Hollywood actress Lupita Nyong’o playing the lead character Ifemelu in the much-anticipated on-screen adaptation of Chimamanda’s bestseller, Americanah, has been generating a lot of controversy …

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General Articles

5 classiest and most expensive restaurants in Lagos

September 22, 2019May 6, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Staff writer Food is not just food — not when you are spending something close to a certain person’s salary to have it. There are many places to eat …

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21 annoying things Nigerians do all the time!

September 20, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Staff writer As a Nigerian, I can assure you that we are not normal. It could be a big struggle living among ourselves daily. The good news is that …

21 annoying things Nigerians do all the time! Read More
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Photos of Jollof Rice prepared with rat meat goes viral

September 20, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer There is really no limit to the type of meat jollof rice can be prepared with, whether chicken, beef or lamb. But when someone chose to go …

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General Articles

10 English phrases that mean an entirely different thing in Pidgin

September 19, 2019March 27, 2025 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer If you are Nigerian or know about the country, then you should know that the Nigerian brand of English can be quite different from standard English. In …

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The story behind Tiwa Savage’s new song title “49-99”

September 18, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Nigerian music diva this month released her much-anticipated single “49-99”. The single is Tiwa’s official single this year, after her waves-making collaboration with DJ Spinall and Wizkid …

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8 things you need to know before planning to visit Lagos

September 18, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Are you planning to visit what’s probably the most interesting city in Africa? Great! Sit back and enjoy this article as we bring to you everything you …

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8 common problems of living in Lagos

September 16, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer You live in Lagos — great! I understand there are some people (like me) who cannot function outside a big city like Lagos — that is, only …

8 common problems of living in Lagos Read More
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Is South Africa’s xenophobic attacks comparable to ‘Ghana Must Go’

September 12, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Following the renewed xenophobic attacks against foreigners in South Africa, over 600 Nigerians have signed up for free evacuation back to Nigeria from South Africa. Massive demonstrations …

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8 beard facts that will completely SHOCK you

September 11, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer It is no longer news that having beards can increase a man’s attractiveness. A real study actually exists to prove this. The Australian study examined how facial …

8 beard facts that will completely SHOCK you Read More
General Articles

7 fun things to do on a weekend in Lagos

September 10, 2019May 1, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Lagos can be all things but definitely not dry. You can’t be in Lagos and not be having fun. Don’t think that is remotely possible. After all …

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True Life

Short Story: How Amaka Disappointed Me

September 8, 2019May 1, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Daniel Nkado Amaka does not joke with her business. This would be her 6th year in the industry and not a single dissatisfied customer yet. She had known a …

Short Story: How Amaka Disappointed Me Read More
General Articles

6 ridiculous things we believed as children in Africa

September 8, 2019May 6, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Growing up in Africa can be both fun and confusing. There were a lot of weird superstitions flying around (I’m sure some are still are) and most …

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General Articles

The BEST pink lips balm and cream in Nigeria

September 7, 2019May 15, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Uzonna Adi So I just finally quit smoking but realized I faced another major challenge — getting rid of my smoker’s lips. Smoker’s lips are lips that have turned …

The BEST pink lips balm and cream in Nigeria Read More
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Everything to know about Zimbabwe’s late president, Robert Mugabe

September 6, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Zimbabwe’s longtime president Robert Mugabe has died at the age of 95 after a brief illness. Mugabe’s death was announced by the office of Zimbabwe’s president on …

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How Nigerians can travel to China as a tourist

September 4, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer China is a top travel destination for Nigerians. Getting the China tourist visa is pretty straightforward. Visa applications are rarely rejected by the Chinese Embassy of Nigeria …

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How to prepare the local Nigerian peanut butter at home

September 3, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer Locally-made peanut butter has been a well-known Nigerian staple for decades. The Igbos call it “ose oji” or “okwo ose“, loosely translating to “pepper for kola” because …

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3 tips for Nigerian students going abroad to study

September 2, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer On the surface, studying abroad looks really fun and straightforward – you pick what you want to study and choose a cool school and start preparing for …

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Media and Entertainment

Australian scholarship opportunities and offers for African students

September 2, 2019July 27, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer The Government of Australia offers numerous opportunities for scholarships, grants, and bursaries which can help support you financially with your studies in Australia.Asides the government, Australian educational …

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All transgender people MUST be sterilized – Court rules

September 1, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Compared to other Asian countries, Japan is relatively progressive when it comes to LGBT+ rights. However, transgender people living in the country face numerous challenges. Just earlier …

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Biographies / General Articles

Bobrisky – one of Nigeria’s most powerful social activists

September 1, 2019September 8, 2021 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Daniel Nkado Some people still respond with a hiss when the name of Nigeria’s (probably Africa’s too) most famous crossdresser, Bobrisky, is mentioned. But the truth remains that Bobrisky …

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General Articles

The FULL steps of getting the new Nigerian ECOWAS e-Passport

August 29, 2019December 21, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 3 Comments.

by Staff writer The new Nigerian ECOWAS e-Passport is slightly different from the old international passport. With the ECOWAS e-Passport, everything from your bio details to contact information is electronically …

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Why you should not get your braces from a public hospital in Nigeria

August 29, 2019August 3, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 4 Comments.

by Miz Tee So I just recently got my braces from a private clinic in Nigeria. Even though it is way more expensive to use a private clinic instead of …

Why you should not get your braces from a public hospital in Nigeria Read More
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The long-list for 2019 Nigeria Prize for Literature is HERE!

August 27, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer The Advisory Board for The Nigeria Prize for Literature announced the long-list of 11 drawn from 173 books, for the 2019 edition of the prize over a …

The long-list for 2019 Nigeria Prize for Literature is HERE! Read More
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Melania Loves Trudeau — All the reactions!

August 26, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer At the G7 summit in Biarritz on Saturday, wife of US president, Melania Trump was captured raising her face to give Canadian Prime Minister, Justin Trudeau, a …

Melania Loves Trudeau — All the reactions! Read More
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5 good countries Nigerians can visit without a visa

August 19, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Let’s face it — the Nigerian passport is super WEAK. As at the time of writing this post, the current mobility score of the Nigerian passport stands …

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This is the donkey that sings “The Circle of Life”

August 17, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Perhaps the story of donkeys talking in the Bible is true after all. In a video posted by a South Carolina man on Facebook, the man and …

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“It is easier to be GAY in Saudi Arabia than be STRAIGHT”

August 15, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer Saudi Arabia is well known for its strict stand against same-sex relations. Just as in Sudan and Yemen, homosexuality is punishable by death under sharia law in …

“It is easier to be GAY in Saudi Arabia than be STRAIGHT” Read More
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3 most medicinal Nigerian leafy vegetables!

August 12, 2019May 16, 2021 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Before medicine went completely orthodox, our ancestors depended on herbs and roots to treat major illnesses. Even now still, some of the drugs and therapies we take …

3 most medicinal Nigerian leafy vegetables! Read More
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Jon Snow was actually crowned king in Game of Thrones Season 8

August 7, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer While everyone was criticizing the final season of HBO’s hit series, Game of Thrones, we all perhaps have missed this very important detail in the season. That …

Jon Snow was actually crowned king in Game of Thrones Season 8 Read More
General Articles

Sorry iPhone users, Apple is no longer the KING of smartphones!

August 7, 2019May 2, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Not-so-great news for iPhone users! All reports point to the view that Apple is losing its grip on the smartphone market. Apple has slipped to 4th place …

Sorry iPhone users, Apple is no longer the KING of smartphones! Read More
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See the most expensive hotel in Lagos, Nigeria

August 2, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 8 Comments.

by Staff writer Africa’s biggest city, Lagos Nigeria, boasts of some of the classiest and most stylish hotels in Africa. The question of which Lagos hotel is the most expensive …

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Who is Beyoncé? Nigerians deny Beyoncé on Twitter!

July 31, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer Okay, this is some hilarious situation! We all know who the Queen of Music is. #NoDispute But apparently, being Queen is not enough to make Nigerians refuse …

Who is Beyoncé? Nigerians deny Beyoncé on Twitter! Read More
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Real reasons I hate feminism – Two men share their thoughts

July 29, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Allen Lobo I don’t hate feminism. Because to hate something, I must have at least an ounce of esteem for it. No, I am disgusted by it and have …

Real reasons I hate feminism – Two men share their thoughts Read More
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This gay couple’s Indian wedding has left the internet SHOOK!

July 28, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer New Jersey-based Indian couple Amit Shah and Aditya Madiraju decided to celebrate their marriage in a traditional Hindu way in the US last week (July 20). The …

This gay couple’s Indian wedding has left the internet SHOOK! Read More
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Taylor Swift, Jennifer Hudson and Idris Elba are all CATS in upcoming movie

July 27, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 2 Comments.

by Staff writer A new movie adaptation of Andrew Lloyd Webber’s musical Cats is coming to the silver screen on 20 December 2019! In addition to starring some of the …

Taylor Swift, Jennifer Hudson and Idris Elba are all CATS in upcoming movie Read More
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Video blogger dies after eating live centipedes for traffic

July 27, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer A China video blogger has died after making a video of himself eating centipedes and geckos. According to the Daily Mail, the man known as “Sun” live-streamed …

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Is Beyoncé’s “Brown Skin Girl” colorist?

July 26, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Daniel Nkado Beyoncé’s “Brown Skin Girl” with WizKid and Blue Ivy is easily one of the most-liked tracks in The Gift album. The song which is supposedly made to …

Is Beyoncé’s “Brown Skin Girl” colorist? Read More
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We all thought she is her grandmother, but they are actually lovers!

July 22, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer A 24-year-old YouTuber just married her 61-year-old girlfriend, who people earlier thought was her grandmother. Julia Zelg and Eileen De Freest met each other on Tinder, and …

We all thought she is her grandmother, but they are actually lovers! Read More
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Lupita Nyong’o dancing to ‘Brown Skin Girl’ is EVERYTHING we need

July 20, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer “Brown Skin Girl” is easily the most-liked track in Beyoncé’s new Lion King-inspired album: The Gift. The track, brought to life by Nigerian WizKid, SAINt JHN and …

Lupita Nyong’o dancing to ‘Brown Skin Girl’ is EVERYTHING we need Read More
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Viral FaceApp might be dangerous – Experts warn

July 18, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Almost everyone has used fun viral application FaceApp, including celebrities like Drake, Cardi B and the Jonas Brothers. FaceApp has been giving people the power to change …

Viral FaceApp might be dangerous – Experts warn Read More
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All the African artists in Beyoncé’s new ‘Lion King’ album

July 16, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer American superstar Beyoncé has released the track list for her Lion King-inspired album, The Lion King: The Gift, and Africans have gone into frenzy. The album, while …

All the African artists in Beyoncé’s new ‘Lion King’ album Read More
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Lady Gaga faces backlash after launch of beauty brand

July 16, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - Leave a Comment

by Staff writer American star Lady Gaga is facing backlash after launching her beauty line exclusively on Amazon this week. Lady Gaga’s beauty brand, Haus Laboratories, is sold only on …

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Meghan Markle taking a photo with Beyoncé will cause drama, royal commentator says

July 14, 2019March 23, 2020 - by Daniel Nkado - 1 Comment

by Staff writer Buckingham Palace confirmed this week that Prince Harry and Meghan Markle will be joining Beyoncé and other stars in Leicester Square in support of the new photo-realistic …

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