by Daniel Nkado
While there are obviously some benefits that come with being single, a lot of us still believe nothing can be compared to being in a committed relationship.
Even as I admit I need this article probably more than you, here are 5 possible reasons you have failed to hook a mate:
1. You play hard to get
It’s the 21st century; gone are the days of Cinderella or Rapunzel or the shy calm beauty in the forest surrounded by thorns and lions. Not many has that time now to be battling to get your attention when other options abound.
2. You are a drama queen, or prince
With the rising cost of painkillers, people are now preferring to be with someone they can feel safe with, and not readily throw themselves into a roaring lake of fire.
3. You don’t go out
Are you always indoors 24/7 and yet waiting for the love of your life to come passing by someday? Oh dear, you may get old without seeing him or her. Even jungle folk migrate to find mates, so what makes you think you are any different?
4. You judge people a lot
One thing peculiar to all picky buffs — they take a lifetime (of singleness) to finally form an opinion.
5. You fear commitment
If one of the best things about your life is currently not sharing a bed space, then welcome on board to a good old life of singledom.
Daniel Nkado is a Nigerian writer, speaker and founder of DNBStories.com.
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