‘Marriage doesn’t work anymore – here are alternatives’ – Writer Hadley Freeman

In a new piece for The Guardian, British-American journalist Hadley Freeman writes that marriage no longer works at this present age. “Marriage was invented back when humans were lucky to …

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Mercy Eke fingered as Aaron Samuel’s marriage to his wife, Chinwe, allegedly crashes

Reports have emerged that Nigerian professional footballer Aaron Samuel Olanare and his beautiful wife, Chinwe aka Mkpuru Mma are no longer together. There are unconfirmed rumours that BBNaija reality TV …

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Tchidi Chikere’s ex-wife, Sophia Williams, shades Nuella Njubigbo over rumours of marriage crash

Sophia Williams – the ex-wife of Nollywood filmmaker Tchidi Chikere has thrown a shade at her ex-husband following rumours that Tchidi Chikere’s marriage to another actress, Nuella Njubigbo, has crashed. …

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Thin-waist actress Princess Shyngle announces her marriage ended after one week

Ghana-based Gambian actress Princess Shyngle has announced that her marriage of barely two months has ended. The “thin-waist” actress married Gibril Bala Gaye who she described as her ‘childhood best …

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You are a witch if your husband’s life does not appreciate after marriage – Pastor Funke Adejumo

Pastor Funke Adejumo of Agape Christian Ministries made a shocking revelation while preaching to women during a recent church program. The English graduate, teacher and marriage counsellor said any woman …

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Social vs Sexual Visibility: Why Being Seen Changes Sex for Gay Men

“And with social visibility, I don’t have that much need for sexual visibility anymore.”—A Black gay man living in Canada. Humans share a core emotional need to be seen as …

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Trust Onion Model: A Guide to Building Black Queer Chosen Family

Part 1: What Is A Chosen Family? Chosen family—also called found family or family of choice—refers to non‑biological relationships that queer people intentionally build for love, support, safety, and belonging. …

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Masculinity Anchors Model: Why Black Gay Men Chase Straight Validation

Introduction: Understanding Black Gay Masculinity Across major Western cities—such as London, New York, and Toronto—many Black gay men recognise an exhausting pattern: the constant evaluation of their masculinity through a …

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Nigeria vs. UK Queer Life — How Safety Cancels Intimacy

A comparative analysis of LGBTQ+ life in Nigeria and the UK—this piece explores how increased safety can quietly weaken intimacy, and how dating apps—Grindr, Jack’d, and others— in low‑risk environments …

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LGBTQ+ Africa: Why Diaspora Visibility and Advocacy Must Put Safety First

There is a persistent and often dangerous assumption in global LGBTQ+ advocacy: that visibility automatically leads to liberation. In Western settings, we’re taught to view “coming out” as the ultimate …

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